1 00:00:41,607 --> 00:00:46,078 Based on the true story of Benjamin Prüfer and Sreykeo Sorvan. 2 00:00:57,047 --> 00:01:00,278 Phnom Penh, Cambodia 3 00:03:59,607 --> 00:04:00,437 You shoot 4 00:04:05,567 --> 00:04:08,320 So now you shoot the tree 5 00:04:37,087 --> 00:04:38,839 Peace, folks! 6 00:04:43,327 --> 00:04:45,795 Ben, l have a cool idea 7 00:04:46,087 --> 00:04:47,600 We'll take LSD 8 00:04:48,007 --> 00:04:50,441 at the Killing Fields. War tourism with ambition 9 00:05:09,967 --> 00:05:12,435 Shit man. They'll rip us off 10 00:05:13,527 --> 00:05:15,165 Shit, l have no money on me 11 00:05:33,647 --> 00:05:35,046 Got any water? 12 00:05:35,567 --> 00:05:37,523 Why would l have water? 13 00:05:38,287 --> 00:05:40,596 lt's not my fault the fucking tuk-tuk died 14 00:05:41,927 --> 00:05:42,837 Look 15 00:05:44,087 --> 00:05:45,315 Somebody's there 16 00:05:59,807 --> 00:06:00,796 lt's called Phnom 17 00:07:46,447 --> 00:07:47,766 Look, Ben 18 00:07:48,087 --> 00:07:49,645 Pretty women 19 00:07:50,247 --> 00:07:51,123 Wave 20 00:07:55,847 --> 00:07:57,439 You need to open up 21 00:07:58,007 --> 00:07:59,838 Reach out to women 22 00:08:02,247 --> 00:08:03,441 Here 23 00:08:03,887 --> 00:08:05,445 you're unaware of time 24 00:08:05,887 --> 00:08:08,276 Time's aware of you 25 00:08:09,087 --> 00:08:10,725 and catches you 26 00:08:10,887 --> 00:08:13,799 and you float in time 27 00:08:14,007 --> 00:08:15,725 We take time 28 00:08:17,727 --> 00:08:18,842 and hack it up 29 00:08:18,967 --> 00:08:20,764 You can't bank time 30 00:08:21,687 --> 00:08:23,086 Gnarly! 31 00:08:39,527 --> 00:08:40,926 Marie is sweet, eh? 32 00:08:41,447 --> 00:08:42,516 She never talks 33 00:08:42,687 --> 00:08:44,086 l mean visually 34 00:08:54,567 --> 00:08:55,761 Go in with me 35 00:09:32,967 --> 00:09:35,162 We're in Phnom Penh! 36 00:16:30,487 --> 00:16:33,160 The question is, my place or yours? 37 00:21:12,447 --> 00:21:14,165 l'm going to eat 38 00:21:15,727 --> 00:21:17,206 Thai chicken micken 39 00:21:17,807 --> 00:21:19,240 You coming? Yes 40 00:27:15,047 --> 00:27:16,719 You bought her a ring?! 41 00:27:17,207 --> 00:27:18,356 Are you nuts? 42 00:27:20,167 --> 00:27:21,520 They invest in gold jewelry 43 00:27:22,007 --> 00:27:22,917 For a rainy day 44 00:27:23,087 --> 00:27:24,440 They don't do that here 45 00:27:25,367 --> 00:27:26,163 Yes, they do 46 00:27:26,327 --> 00:27:27,157 No! 47 00:27:27,287 --> 00:27:29,039 They want you to marry them 48 00:27:29,167 --> 00:27:29,997 That's all 49 00:27:30,127 --> 00:27:31,685 You have no choice 50 00:27:32,047 --> 00:27:33,321 No choice, how? 51 00:27:34,647 --> 00:27:36,603 l didn't mean you, doobie doo 52 00:27:39,487 --> 00:27:40,715 Speaking of doobie 53 00:27:44,327 --> 00:27:45,646 What's up? 54 00:27:45,767 --> 00:27:46,802 Are you in love? 55 00:27:48,367 --> 00:27:50,517 Are you in love with Regula? 56 00:27:51,927 --> 00:27:53,360 l don't love somebody who's not there 57 00:27:59,247 --> 00:28:01,283 We're going home tomorrow! 58 00:35:24,207 --> 00:35:27,802 Hamburg, Germany - 6 weeks later 59 00:36:11,167 --> 00:36:12,156 Ed! Open the door! 60 00:36:28,207 --> 00:36:29,162 Who are you? 61 00:36:29,287 --> 00:36:30,800 l'm Ben. l live here 62 00:36:31,127 --> 00:36:32,037 Who are you? 63 00:36:32,287 --> 00:36:33,356 Lilli 64 00:36:45,927 --> 00:36:47,326 We expected you yesterday 65 00:36:52,327 --> 00:36:53,999 What happened? 66 00:36:54,887 --> 00:36:56,161 Bicycle accident 67 00:37:02,287 --> 00:37:03,163 We study together 68 00:37:04,567 --> 00:37:06,125 We had a welcome party for you 69 00:37:07,567 --> 00:37:08,795 The mattress is in the basement 70 00:37:09,847 --> 00:37:11,121 Or you could just... 71 00:37:13,767 --> 00:37:15,519 sleep on the sofa 72 00:37:16,567 --> 00:37:17,920 How does it work? 73 00:37:18,007 --> 00:37:19,042 Do you pay her? 74 00:37:19,647 --> 00:37:20,921 l send her money 75 00:37:21,327 --> 00:37:23,363 so she won't sell her body 76 00:37:23,687 --> 00:37:24,722 Can you afford that? 77 00:37:24,967 --> 00:37:25,717 No, he can't 78 00:37:26,687 --> 00:37:27,881 What's a hooker like in bed? 79 00:37:28,527 --> 00:37:29,642 lt's nice 80 00:37:30,007 --> 00:37:31,201 What does that mean? 81 00:37:31,327 --> 00:37:32,999 She does the work and you enjoy it? 82 00:37:33,167 --> 00:37:34,759 With her it's nice 83 00:37:35,487 --> 00:37:36,522 Like us 84 00:37:37,607 --> 00:37:38,722 l see 85 00:37:39,007 --> 00:37:40,599 What'll you do now? 86 00:37:41,687 --> 00:37:42,836 An intern job 87 00:38:00,807 --> 00:38:02,445 What else? 88 00:38:03,807 --> 00:38:05,559 Lunch is in the cafeteria 89 00:38:05,687 --> 00:38:06,961 On the ground floor 90 00:38:07,087 --> 00:38:07,917 Here comes the boss 91 00:38:08,007 --> 00:38:09,838 Excuse me, Mr. Behr, just briefly 92 00:38:10,327 --> 00:38:11,282 This is my brother Ben 93 00:38:11,767 --> 00:38:12,722 Great. Hello 94 00:38:12,967 --> 00:38:13,877 lt's a pleasure 95 00:38:14,007 --> 00:38:15,201 lf you need anything 96 00:38:15,687 --> 00:38:16,722 just say so 97 00:38:17,287 --> 00:38:19,198 The door is always open 98 00:38:20,047 --> 00:38:21,116 Don't hold back 99 00:38:21,327 --> 00:38:22,316 l'm here for you 100 00:38:22,767 --> 00:38:24,120 l mean for 101 00:38:24,727 --> 00:38:26,365 questions, suggestions 102 00:38:26,567 --> 00:38:27,682 Speaking of which 103 00:38:27,927 --> 00:38:29,519 my brother spent 3 months in Asia 104 00:38:29,647 --> 00:38:30,557 Really? 105 00:38:30,807 --> 00:38:31,603 Cambodia 106 00:38:36,327 --> 00:38:37,646 Good 107 00:38:39,167 --> 00:38:40,839 This is Mr. Müllerhofen 108 00:38:41,207 --> 00:38:42,037 Who? 109 00:38:43,247 --> 00:38:44,521 Please come in 110 00:38:46,727 --> 00:38:47,921 This is Mr. Müllerhofen 111 00:38:48,127 --> 00:38:49,480 He thinks his building society 112 00:38:49,647 --> 00:38:50,921 has been embezzling 113 00:38:51,087 --> 00:38:52,361 from tenants for 15 years 114 00:38:53,567 --> 00:38:54,124 G' day 115 00:38:54,487 --> 00:38:55,636 Coffee or water? 116 00:38:56,047 --> 00:38:57,878 l've had my daily water quota 117 00:38:58,687 --> 00:38:59,756 Please... 118 00:39:03,527 --> 00:39:04,755 Right, a chair 119 00:39:05,927 --> 00:39:06,916 Thanks 120 00:39:19,047 --> 00:39:20,605 Müllerhofen! 121 00:39:20,847 --> 00:39:22,883 He killed me 122 00:39:23,327 --> 00:39:24,237 Müllerhofen is 123 00:39:24,367 --> 00:39:25,925 totally nuts, of course 124 00:39:26,447 --> 00:39:28,881 But if he's right, it could be a big scandal 125 00:39:29,287 --> 00:39:31,801 That would be great 126 00:39:36,487 --> 00:39:38,682 How're things at home? Sybille's well? 127 00:39:39,167 --> 00:39:40,919 lf you mean Claudia 128 00:39:41,887 --> 00:39:43,923 she doesn't affect my home life 129 00:39:44,087 --> 00:39:45,964 Ah. No gray area 130 00:39:46,207 --> 00:39:48,926 l keep office and home separate 131 00:39:49,247 --> 00:39:50,726 So only during office hours? 132 00:39:50,847 --> 00:39:53,919 lt's none of your business who l'm banging 133 00:39:54,087 --> 00:39:55,679 Got it? 134 00:39:55,927 --> 00:39:58,600 l get you a job and you fuck with me? 135 00:39:58,967 --> 00:40:00,366 No worries 136 00:40:00,527 --> 00:40:02,324 l've got other problems 137 00:40:02,647 --> 00:40:04,126 Claudia is only here 'til Christmas 138 00:40:04,247 --> 00:40:05,919 l know it. So does she 139 00:40:06,327 --> 00:40:07,919 We're all adults 140 00:40:08,727 --> 00:40:10,718 So it's all under control 141 00:41:05,727 --> 00:41:07,797 l met a woman in Cambodia 142 00:41:11,927 --> 00:41:13,485 You send her money? 143 00:41:15,447 --> 00:41:16,926 She's my girlfriend 144 00:41:17,607 --> 00:41:19,325 Those women have lots of men 145 00:41:19,607 --> 00:41:21,120 who send money 146 00:41:21,847 --> 00:41:23,200 Bet she does too 147 00:41:25,967 --> 00:41:27,639 She can't afford love 148 00:41:34,167 --> 00:41:35,236 Sorry 149 00:41:42,007 --> 00:41:43,918 Tell me about Cambodia 150 00:41:44,687 --> 00:41:45,517 What? 151 00:41:47,327 --> 00:41:49,124 How do people live there? 152 00:41:51,207 --> 00:41:52,606 They constantly eat 153 00:41:52,847 --> 00:41:56,317 and offer you food. Food's important 154 00:41:57,247 --> 00:41:59,158 They're never alone 155 00:41:59,727 --> 00:42:01,604 They're always in a group. Even asleep 156 00:42:03,447 --> 00:42:05,642 The whole family sleeps in one room 157 00:42:08,207 --> 00:42:10,198 lf they had to sleep alone 158 00:42:10,727 --> 00:42:12,160 they'd feel weird 159 00:42:14,487 --> 00:42:15,761 They even use 160 00:42:15,887 --> 00:42:16,922 the same toothbrush 161 00:42:47,127 --> 00:42:48,526 l send her 150 a month 162 00:42:48,767 --> 00:42:50,439 ln return, she got a newjob 163 00:42:50,567 --> 00:42:51,556 Doing what? 164 00:42:51,687 --> 00:42:53,279 Working at a beer garden 165 00:42:53,367 --> 00:42:54,516 On commission 166 00:42:54,927 --> 00:42:56,883 lf more customers drink her brand 167 00:42:56,967 --> 00:42:58,320 she earns more 168 00:42:58,607 --> 00:43:00,279 And no men? 169 00:43:01,127 --> 00:43:02,924 No. That's our contract 170 00:43:03,367 --> 00:43:04,846 Ah. Contract 171 00:43:21,567 --> 00:43:23,842 Your head back in Cambodia? 172 00:43:31,367 --> 00:43:34,279 What does life cost in Phnom Penh? 173 00:43:34,767 --> 00:43:36,678 ln a factory 174 00:43:36,887 --> 00:43:40,277 she'd earn ¤ 50 or 60 a month 175 00:43:41,647 --> 00:43:44,366 But she takes care of her family 176 00:43:44,607 --> 00:43:46,199 What does her mother do? 177 00:43:46,607 --> 00:43:47,926 She gambles 178 00:43:48,167 --> 00:43:49,077 Cards 179 00:44:47,767 --> 00:44:48,597 What's up? 180 00:44:50,007 --> 00:44:51,235 Did something happen? 181 00:44:53,047 --> 00:44:55,197 Could you have caught it? 182 00:44:57,687 --> 00:44:58,881 Yes 183 00:44:59,927 --> 00:45:01,280 You have to get tested 184 00:45:01,527 --> 00:45:02,676 l know 185 00:45:03,767 --> 00:45:05,837 Listen, your 3 months are almost up 186 00:45:06,087 --> 00:45:08,476 You'll get Claudia's editor's job 187 00:45:09,127 --> 00:45:10,685 Sign the contract today 188 00:45:10,887 --> 00:45:13,447 Then we'll insure you against disability 189 00:45:13,887 --> 00:45:16,117 You want to hire me as a staff editor? 190 00:45:19,127 --> 00:45:21,163 You're mixing private life and the office again 191 00:45:22,447 --> 00:45:23,721 You're my brother 192 00:45:24,207 --> 00:45:25,925 lt doesn't get any more private 193 00:45:26,607 --> 00:45:28,165 l don't care 194 00:46:10,287 --> 00:46:11,037 Shit! 195 00:46:13,567 --> 00:46:14,283 Shit! 196 00:46:14,887 --> 00:46:15,763 Shit! 197 00:46:16,807 --> 00:46:17,603 Shit! 198 00:46:28,367 --> 00:46:29,277 How are you? 199 00:46:29,487 --> 00:46:30,602 Haven't seen you in ages 200 00:46:32,167 --> 00:46:33,122 l'm fine. You? 201 00:46:33,447 --> 00:46:34,357 Not bad 202 00:46:34,767 --> 00:46:36,086 Tandem training program 203 00:46:36,527 --> 00:46:38,245 3 months office, 3 months school 204 00:46:38,607 --> 00:46:40,563 l'm in comptrolling 205 00:46:40,887 --> 00:46:41,797 at Hapag Lloyd 206 00:46:41,887 --> 00:46:42,922 A great company 207 00:46:43,207 --> 00:46:44,481 You know logistics 208 00:46:44,687 --> 00:46:46,120 is growing 10% per year? 209 00:46:46,447 --> 00:46:48,278 So they need people badly 210 00:46:49,007 --> 00:46:50,440 The money's right too 211 00:46:50,607 --> 00:46:52,165 1000 euros a month 212 00:46:52,567 --> 00:46:54,285 They want people to look good 213 00:46:56,927 --> 00:46:58,997 When l finish my degree 214 00:46:59,087 --> 00:47:00,918 l'll have a job waiting 215 00:47:01,607 --> 00:47:02,756 And you? 216 00:47:03,047 --> 00:47:04,639 l'm getting an HlV test 217 00:47:08,807 --> 00:47:10,445 l'm sorry 218 00:47:10,687 --> 00:47:11,836 No worries 219 00:47:12,847 --> 00:47:14,246 l'll cross my fingers 220 00:47:16,287 --> 00:47:17,686 All the best 221 00:47:18,927 --> 00:47:20,280 See you 222 00:47:26,887 --> 00:47:27,717 What's that? 223 00:47:27,847 --> 00:47:28,916 For my new visa 224 00:47:29,327 --> 00:47:30,840 You're going back? 225 00:47:31,487 --> 00:47:33,159 Sreykeo is HlV positive 226 00:47:39,247 --> 00:47:40,316 And you? 227 00:47:42,447 --> 00:47:44,165 l get the results in 5 days 228 00:47:44,767 --> 00:47:46,086 Then l go to Cambodia 229 00:47:46,167 --> 00:47:47,725 What if you're positive? 230 00:47:47,887 --> 00:47:49,240 l'll still go 231 00:47:50,927 --> 00:47:52,963 That's just so romantic 232 00:47:54,727 --> 00:47:56,683 Just romantic or plain stupid 233 00:47:58,247 --> 00:48:00,078 Should l get tested? 234 00:48:01,167 --> 00:48:01,997 The toothbrush 235 00:48:03,367 --> 00:48:06,279 l don't think so, but l'll let you know 236 00:48:07,367 --> 00:48:09,119 Did l miss something? 237 00:56:09,167 --> 00:56:10,156 Think about it 238 00:56:11,087 --> 00:56:12,645 Once she starts the meds 239 00:56:12,767 --> 00:56:14,439 she has to keep taking them 240 00:56:14,607 --> 00:56:15,926 Forever 241 00:56:16,367 --> 00:56:17,800 lf she stops 242 00:56:17,887 --> 00:56:19,718 the virus could become resistant 243 00:56:20,287 --> 00:56:22,198 But in Cambodia only Stavudine 244 00:56:22,327 --> 00:56:23,806 is available 245 00:56:24,007 --> 00:56:25,963 With 1000 side effects 246 00:56:26,447 --> 00:56:28,722 Nerve damage to the arms and legs 247 00:56:29,047 --> 00:56:31,277 lt's not even used in Germany anymore 248 00:56:31,887 --> 00:56:34,003 lt's well tolerated at first 249 00:56:34,127 --> 00:56:36,925 but less effective and those side effects 250 00:56:37,687 --> 00:56:40,042 Trust me, AZT is much better 251 00:56:43,807 --> 00:56:46,002 AZT is not available in Cambodia 252 00:56:46,367 --> 00:56:48,517 l want the supplier's name 253 00:56:48,607 --> 00:56:50,643 All the many HlV cases here 254 00:56:50,767 --> 00:56:52,086 take Stavudine 255 00:56:52,207 --> 00:56:53,322 Why should this girl 256 00:56:53,487 --> 00:56:54,476 get anything else? 257 00:56:54,607 --> 00:56:56,279 She's my girlfriend 258 00:56:56,847 --> 00:56:58,166 We'll gladly enroll your girlfriend 259 00:56:58,367 --> 00:56:59,720 in our program 260 00:56:59,887 --> 00:57:01,957 but if our drugs aren't good enough 261 00:57:02,087 --> 00:57:04,555 l know you can get AZT from the supplier 262 00:57:04,927 --> 00:57:06,121 Be reasonable 263 00:57:06,327 --> 00:57:08,158 Stavudine is always available 264 00:57:08,327 --> 00:57:09,806 but AZT... 265 00:57:09,927 --> 00:57:11,485 That's why l need a reliable source 266 00:57:11,847 --> 00:57:13,678 l'll buy them but where! 267 00:57:13,927 --> 00:57:15,440 That's not ourjob 268 00:57:15,927 --> 00:57:16,996 l don't give a shit! 269 00:57:17,167 --> 00:57:19,203 Give me the damn address 270 00:59:06,607 --> 00:59:09,440 We're building wells in rural areas of Cambodia 271 00:59:09,927 --> 00:59:11,883 so our aid worker 272 00:59:12,247 --> 00:59:15,478 can'tjoin your HlV program here in Phnom Penh 273 00:59:16,207 --> 00:59:17,196 No problem 274 00:59:19,767 --> 00:59:22,201 You can buy the drugs for her 275 00:59:22,327 --> 00:59:23,965 directly from our importer 276 00:59:29,807 --> 00:59:30,842 That's possible? 277 00:59:31,007 --> 00:59:32,042 Of course 278 01:08:37,047 --> 01:08:38,036 Oh, shit 279 01:09:20,927 --> 01:09:23,316 Your boyfriend can't work any more 280 01:09:23,767 --> 01:09:26,235 He has stomach ache very weak 281 01:09:26,967 --> 01:09:28,116 But... 282 01:09:28,247 --> 01:09:31,637 l love him. And he loves me 283 01:09:32,687 --> 01:09:34,723 We'll keep that in mind 284 01:12:39,687 --> 01:12:42,485 Okey dokey in Cambodia? 285 01:12:42,727 --> 01:12:43,921 More or less 286 01:12:44,607 --> 01:12:45,881 This is Vanessa 287 01:12:48,647 --> 01:12:49,875 Hello, Vanessa 288 01:12:50,927 --> 01:12:52,076 You two study together? 289 01:12:52,647 --> 01:12:54,000 No. Why? 290 01:12:54,247 --> 01:12:55,600 Whatever 291 01:12:58,967 --> 01:13:00,286 l'll just close this 292 01:13:04,687 --> 01:13:05,802 What about Lilli? 293 01:13:06,447 --> 01:13:07,800 Vanessa is less stressful 294 01:13:08,927 --> 01:13:09,882 And you? 295 01:13:10,847 --> 01:13:13,759 UN ambassador for human rights and development aid? 296 01:13:13,927 --> 01:13:15,360 How's things in Phnom Penh? 297 01:13:15,567 --> 01:13:18,035 Thanks, Dr. House. Everything's fine 298 01:13:18,847 --> 01:13:20,599 Her viral load is dropping 299 01:13:20,927 --> 01:13:22,838 Her family wants me to 300 01:13:23,047 --> 01:13:24,878 marry her and farm rice 301 01:13:25,607 --> 01:13:27,165 So now you don't know what to do? 302 01:13:27,607 --> 01:13:28,926 No, l just don't know 303 01:13:29,487 --> 01:13:30,317 l thought 304 01:13:30,527 --> 01:13:32,802 it would work out, but there's no solution 305 01:13:34,207 --> 01:13:35,720 l go there, l come back 306 01:13:36,167 --> 01:13:38,920 l go again. l'm out of money 307 01:13:40,047 --> 01:13:40,923 Right 308 01:13:41,807 --> 01:13:42,762 What do you think? 309 01:13:46,047 --> 01:13:47,036 Make a list 310 01:13:50,047 --> 01:13:51,878 What's on the pro side? 311 01:13:52,767 --> 01:13:54,758 Life with her will never be boring. 312 01:13:55,207 --> 01:13:56,276 Sex? 313 01:14:00,247 --> 01:14:00,918 Really? 314 01:14:01,247 --> 01:14:01,918 Yes 315 01:14:04,447 --> 01:14:06,165 She's special, that's a fact 316 01:14:06,247 --> 01:14:07,157 What else? 317 01:14:08,447 --> 01:14:09,562 She loves me as l am 318 01:14:10,607 --> 01:14:12,245 All women say they love you 319 01:14:12,367 --> 01:14:13,720 for who you are 320 01:14:13,927 --> 01:14:15,280 OK, one plus. Con? 321 01:14:15,687 --> 01:14:17,598 She lives in Asia, l live in Europe 322 01:14:17,807 --> 01:14:19,718 That could be a pro... 323 01:14:19,887 --> 01:14:20,876 So, con? 324 01:14:21,527 --> 01:14:22,846 You can barely communicate 325 01:14:23,127 --> 01:14:24,116 She costs money 326 01:14:24,327 --> 01:14:26,477 She can't, or rather shouldn't, have children 327 01:14:27,167 --> 01:14:29,078 She's a Cambodian ex-prostitute 328 01:14:29,207 --> 01:14:31,926 who is going to die of AlDS. That's a fact 329 01:14:35,207 --> 01:14:37,596 Current medical lore says 330 01:14:37,847 --> 01:14:39,917 she'll live another 25 years, max 331 01:14:41,767 --> 01:14:44,235 if she gets the right medication 332 01:14:44,887 --> 01:14:47,196 Now consider your age 333 01:15:40,767 --> 01:15:41,995 Damn, l don't believe it 334 01:15:44,847 --> 01:15:45,802 German? 335 01:15:47,207 --> 01:15:48,162 Good in Phnom Penh? 336 01:15:48,567 --> 01:15:49,602 You speak German? 337 01:15:49,887 --> 01:15:51,081 Yes. Good 338 01:15:51,247 --> 01:15:52,202 Happy 339 01:15:52,487 --> 01:15:53,602 Happy 340 01:15:53,767 --> 01:15:55,120 Your turn 341 01:16:03,007 --> 01:16:03,678 Listen, Ben 342 01:16:03,887 --> 01:16:06,196 l'll send you to Asia at the magazine's expense 343 01:16:06,327 --> 01:16:08,761 You'll do an article on luxury hotels 344 01:16:08,967 --> 01:16:11,606 and meanwhile, you write your story 345 01:16:12,567 --> 01:16:15,001 Young backpacker meets fallen girl... 346 01:16:15,887 --> 01:16:18,640 You know, AlDS and so on 347 01:16:19,927 --> 01:16:21,804 All for good reason 348 01:16:23,167 --> 01:16:24,805 We'll pay separately 349 01:16:24,927 --> 01:16:26,519 and you keep the copyright 350 01:16:27,247 --> 01:16:28,157 You should invest 351 01:16:28,287 --> 01:16:29,163 to get ahead 352 01:16:29,287 --> 01:16:29,924 l can't do that 353 01:16:30,007 --> 01:16:31,201 Of course you can 354 01:16:32,367 --> 01:16:33,766 Sell it elsewhere and cash in 355 01:16:36,327 --> 01:16:38,602 l have to ask Sreykeo. lt's her story too 356 01:16:38,727 --> 01:16:40,365 Do that. But don't wait long 357 01:16:41,087 --> 01:16:42,759 BTW those are mine 358 01:16:45,127 --> 01:16:46,719 Yeah. Got it 359 01:17:03,887 --> 01:17:04,558 Shit 360 01:17:05,367 --> 01:17:06,641 Want to watch? 361 01:17:09,127 --> 01:17:10,958 otherwise we'll watch porn 362 01:17:11,167 --> 01:17:12,520 During Advent? 363 01:17:13,527 --> 01:17:15,165 Especially during Advent! 364 01:17:22,927 --> 01:17:24,599 From a German 365 01:17:27,727 --> 01:17:29,126 You speak German well 366 01:17:30,487 --> 01:17:33,365 And the German man lives here? 367 01:17:33,567 --> 01:17:34,522 No 368 01:18:46,167 --> 01:18:48,362 She opens the door to the disco 369 01:18:48,647 --> 01:18:51,719 looks around, sees a man at the bar 370 01:18:53,087 --> 01:18:58,115 goes right to him, says buy me a glass of bubbly 371 01:18:58,727 --> 01:19:02,561 l thought, OK, two glasses of champagne 372 01:19:03,567 --> 01:19:05,637 Then she drank it down 373 01:19:05,927 --> 01:19:07,918 in one gulp 374 01:19:08,327 --> 01:19:11,603 and said, now l want to dance 375 01:19:11,807 --> 01:19:13,638 l don't like to dance 376 01:19:13,767 --> 01:19:17,157 But we danced. We even danced well 377 01:19:18,927 --> 01:19:21,361 And ever since l've held her close 378 01:19:22,927 --> 01:19:24,440 Two years later, Henry came along 379 01:19:24,727 --> 01:19:27,366 We got married and soon you arrived 380 01:19:28,127 --> 01:19:30,083 That's our story 381 01:19:32,247 --> 01:19:35,125 Your mother always knew what she wanted 382 01:20:25,647 --> 01:20:26,921 lt's for you 383 01:20:27,967 --> 01:20:29,844 She called me poppa 384 01:20:31,847 --> 01:20:33,485 Why is he going outside? 385 01:20:34,087 --> 01:20:35,884 For privacy. Let him be 386 01:22:18,447 --> 01:22:19,357 You're beautiful 387 01:22:23,447 --> 01:22:24,436 Thank you 388 01:22:34,847 --> 01:22:36,121 Your French is excellent 389 01:22:36,607 --> 01:22:38,245 l'm a teacher 390 01:22:39,927 --> 01:22:43,044 Would you like to sleep with me tonight? 391 01:23:13,487 --> 01:23:14,442 Take the money! 392 01:23:16,527 --> 01:23:17,642 l've got lots of money 393 01:23:19,527 --> 01:23:21,006 Why won't you look at me? 394 01:23:22,807 --> 01:23:24,320 You agreed to come with me 395 01:23:25,087 --> 01:23:26,725 So don't make a fuss now 396 01:23:27,807 --> 01:23:28,762 What's wrong? 397 01:23:29,927 --> 01:23:31,360 l gave you money 398 01:23:32,167 --> 01:23:33,566 Don't make me use force 399 01:23:34,527 --> 01:23:36,995 Or would you rather go with foreigners? 400 01:23:39,567 --> 01:23:41,797 lt's the best hotel in Kuala Lumpur 401 01:23:42,007 --> 01:23:44,919 Wear something nice, write the article 402 01:23:45,127 --> 01:23:48,437 and don't forget the hotel is paying for everything 403 01:23:48,647 --> 01:23:49,557 While you're there 404 01:23:49,767 --> 01:23:52,645 you can figure out how to write your own story 405 01:23:52,887 --> 01:23:54,002 Got it? 406 01:23:55,127 --> 01:23:56,845 l can hand in expense receipts? 407 01:23:56,967 --> 01:23:59,606 Receipts for AlDS drugs would not go over well here 408 01:24:00,127 --> 01:24:01,196 Get it? 409 01:24:05,087 --> 01:24:06,440 l can't do it 410 01:24:07,287 --> 01:24:09,926 We just split up. l can'tjust go and pretend it's fine 411 01:24:10,167 --> 01:24:12,442 and then cash in on our story. That's bad 412 01:24:12,647 --> 01:24:14,922 Break-ups happen 413 01:24:15,087 --> 01:24:16,998 but it's a good story 414 01:24:18,607 --> 01:24:20,438 You can'tjust leave her behind 415 01:24:21,207 --> 01:24:22,640 You'll feel guilty your whole life 416 01:24:23,487 --> 01:24:24,886 that you just cut her off 417 01:24:26,207 --> 01:24:27,356 as if it hadn't happened 418 01:24:27,687 --> 01:24:29,723 First promises, then bam 419 01:24:30,247 --> 01:24:31,441 l didn't make promises 420 01:24:31,567 --> 01:24:32,556 So you think 421 01:24:33,007 --> 01:24:34,759 like big brother here 422 01:24:35,727 --> 01:24:37,080 But she might see it differently 423 01:24:37,527 --> 01:24:38,676 Be honest 424 01:24:39,367 --> 01:24:41,198 You really made no promises? 425 01:24:42,287 --> 01:24:45,324 l promised l'd help and l did that 426 01:24:46,807 --> 01:24:47,842 What do you think? 427 01:24:47,927 --> 01:24:48,484 Me? 428 01:24:50,447 --> 01:24:51,926 l don't see that as a promise 429 01:24:52,487 --> 01:24:53,283 More... 430 01:24:53,607 --> 01:24:54,960 like an agreement or a contract 431 01:24:55,567 --> 01:24:56,124 l see 432 01:24:56,447 --> 01:24:58,517 And then one side just cancels it? 433 01:24:59,207 --> 01:25:01,277 She still works as a bar-girl 434 01:25:01,847 --> 01:25:03,917 although l send money. She broke our contract 435 01:25:04,247 --> 01:25:05,521 lt was your contract 436 01:25:05,727 --> 01:25:07,046 By German law. Hamburg jurisdiction 437 01:25:07,247 --> 01:25:09,158 That contract applies to her? 438 01:25:09,807 --> 01:25:11,126 What security does she have? 439 01:25:11,247 --> 01:25:12,919 Should she wait for you all her life? 440 01:25:13,327 --> 01:25:14,726 At least be real 441 01:25:16,207 --> 01:25:17,845 Go lay your cards on the table 442 01:25:18,607 --> 01:25:20,120 This to and fro is pointless 443 01:25:21,927 --> 01:25:23,645 End the relationship with dignity 444 01:25:24,007 --> 01:25:25,918 Then everybody knows what's what 445 01:25:26,767 --> 01:25:28,086 that's her right 446 01:33:23,927 --> 01:33:27,124 Phnom Penh, Cambodia 447 01:33:46,327 --> 01:33:47,237 Heitmann speaking 448 01:33:47,367 --> 01:33:48,277 Ditto 449 01:33:48,927 --> 01:33:50,076 Are you mad? 450 01:33:51,087 --> 01:33:52,315 Totally? 451 01:33:53,847 --> 01:33:55,644 First you want to go, then you don't 452 01:33:55,767 --> 01:33:57,519 Now you break off the trip? 453 01:33:57,847 --> 01:33:59,439 l need time to for my book 454 01:33:59,567 --> 01:34:00,886 l'm writing our story 455 01:34:01,687 --> 01:34:04,155 The hotel asked where you are 456 01:34:04,367 --> 01:34:06,278 lt's totally embarrassing 457 01:34:06,487 --> 01:34:07,920 including for me 458 01:34:08,087 --> 01:34:09,918 They'll fire you 459 01:34:10,207 --> 01:34:11,959 l don't care 460 01:34:12,127 --> 01:34:13,719 l'll find a job in Cambodia 461 01:35:00,447 --> 01:35:05,123 Today Benjamin and Sreykeo live in Cambodia and Germany. 462 01:35:05,327 --> 01:35:10,606 They have a son. He is healthy.