Enter!
What's wrong?
What are you doing?
I just thought if...
I can sleep here tonight.
Here? Why? Why with your room? </ P>
Is it too hot? Because I just found out if the AC is right ...
No.
Then why? </ P>
I just want... < /p>
Yahh...
I don't...
I'm not in good condition...
I use a fork for breakfast and I...
I thought it might be good if we were just... if I...
It's okay .
I mean , I... / I'll be back. </ P>
Thank you. </ P>
6:00? </ P>
I fry ribs for our breakfast
p>
Alright!
Do you think you can change your marriage?
Change your marriage?
What do you mean?
Like you eat a lot on Friday at then eat again outside?
or if you swallow each meal ,
and arrive you become Cinderella and Prince Charming...
quality first
No. No.
You marry who you marry, you are you. </ P>
Why should it be changed? </ P>
So, if you stay < br /> want it too.
No, I've thought about the incident, it will definitely be sad...
if someone is willing to risk everything just to let go that,
then it might not be the way you are.
No, changing it is difficult. The marriage is not changed.
Hey, what cooks tonight? Children keep coming, right?
Yeah. Burn ribs. </ P>
Oh, they must like it! </ P>
Huh, Arnold? just want what we need.
I choose it / Say
So when do you know each other?
Yeah, 31. What is the prize? Silver? Ivory? Poster? </ P>
No, this is nothing special. Only for the end of the year. </ P>
Oh! We each get new cable TV subscriptions. </ P>
Oh good. </ P>
There must be lots of program events. </ P>
First of all, so much < br /> of you face,
"Should I just swing it or do this?"
Kalian bisa belajar untuk memecahkannya seperti ini.
Everything that is done only returns the wand, does not use the wrist at all.
In fact, in the display below does the swing look like this,
the tip of the stick is outside of the hand here.
Very, very slow setting his wrist.
He can do this, like this then his body move forward...
while the stick will retreat and that's how you guys are right......
Arnold.
Please turn off the AC here?
Night / Goodnight.
I can't tell you so much...
the question I got about what makes marriage perfect.
I see couples who think their marriage is over.
Who feels like it's impossible for to be revived what they once had.
It's not like that. That's not impossible. and it's not too late...
for anyone who is right wants it and is willing to try. </ P>
Thank you. </ P>
What do you want? Breakfast? </ P>
No. Me, I...
What? You're just sitting there? </ P>
Okay. </ P>
What do we have? </ P>
I want to go. </ P>
"Dr. Bernard Feld, Intensive Couple Counseling Center. "
Do you want to go to intensive partner counseling?
in Maine / Maine.
Only half day.
Every day you can read and walk around the city.
4 thousand dollars a week?
Itu sangat intensif/ Pastinya dilapisi emas.
That's why I paid for it.
What?
I used C.D. I / How can you access your CD?
I called Vince.
You called my officer without telling me.
I made a reservation for us.
Just cancel it.
I want to go.
Have you ever met Dr. Lesser? </ P>
Maybe this has something to do with with hormonal matters. </ P>
I'm not crazy, Arnold! </ P>
So do I, don't know > what should I say to you.
Over the years we have been together, I have never... / Have you ever heard me ask for something?
Excuse me? Don't we get a new refrigerator because you want...
that doesn't suit my will. </ P>
Kau wanita dewasa. Kau bisa pergi kemanapun kau menginginkannya.
But I don't go,
So if you want to go to intensive partner counseling alone,
I'll meet you home later.
Maybe / OK. </ P>
It's possible. </ P>
You won't get an audit of more than 217 dollars. </ P>
You don't need to. p>
All right! Call Terri to make the agreement. </ P>
Yes, and thank you. Ah. </ P>
You know, Kay called me. I want to tell you. </ P>
Nothing. He only acts too far, that's all. </ P>
Missing? How? / I don't know. Threaten me. </ P>
What does he want? Car? Vacation, something? </ P>
No. Yeah, vacation. </ P>
I told you. When Susan threatened me
Kulakukan apa yang kita semua ingin lakukan.
Come to Brewsky, no need to call,
come home late because of drunk, and shout, "Fuck you."
You see that succeed.
If I do that again,
I will be there with flowers, cards, dinner maybe even a necklace.
I'll there like "Orkin Man" and kill it to death.
Maybe at that time I wasn't in the condo.
Girl chose the best
I told him that you really like the ocean.
This is your departure ticket.
Oh come on.
The flight at 10:02
Why with you? What are you trying to do to us? </ P>
Aku mau pernikahan yang nyata lagi, Arnold.
A real marriage? Is this not a real marriage after 31 years? Is this not real? </ P>
When was the last time you touched me not just in the photo? </ P>
When was the last time you kissed me? </ P>
I kissed you every day.
We are no longer 22 years old, many things have changed.
I can be more... you know. I can...
This doesn't make sense. </ P>
The flight is 10:02 tomorrow. I'll be there on time. </ P>
Dinner You are on the table.
You don't even... You don't even...
Don't...
If you're one of the people > who are looking further distances,
What if you do this, guess what? I don't like your chances. </ P>
Good morning. </ P>
Selamat pagi, Nyonya. Biar kubawakan ini/ Terimakasih.
Where do we go today? / To the airport.
I hope you're happy.
How far is it?
Only a few hours.
A few hours. That's enough to take us to Canada. </ P>
I'm so glad you came along, Arnold. </ P>
Yeah? </ P>
You told me we were lost and ends in downtown Montreal.
and everyone speaks French.
There is a hotel. Right? </ P>
None. </ P>
We are at Econo Lodge. </ P>
It's in the car, under the seat. </ P>
At what time this starts?
10:30.
We will probably be on time.
Look at the amount of our money.
I will set the alarm .
I won't give too much extra time for us.
It might be impossible to get lost in that vast city.
Alright... / Alright...
We, we can...
p>
I thought I'd see how it works.
Damn it! How should this be...
I'll do it. </ P>
Do you think there is a building in this place who doesn't have a window? </ P>
The whole city seems like built by Hansel and Gretel.
I thought it was very interesting.
That's why they want you to think about it. Do you think he did it intentionally? p>
Choosing a remote place that might be...
I mean, you're stuck here. Like on Alcatraz.
Maybe he just wants people to go.
Do you think you can get an oval plate anywhere in this zip code?
Oh, there's a... small place that looks cute.
That place? </ P>
I guarantee that the place doesn't serve breakfast under 10 dollars. </ P>
You're just a visitor here. </ P>
We're just here a week / It seems like an airport.
We might be better off trying... / a week? I'll go bankrupt in a week. </ P>
Come on. Come here. </ P>
A cup of coffee? </ P>
Yes. Thank you. </ P>
Are there foods on this menu that don't provide lobster in them? </ P>
We see, there are your eggs. </ P>
And, look, they provide special breakfast.
What's special with only 11.75 dollars?
All right, I want to eat with different contents on both sides of the egg.
one cow egg, and one with bacon, fried.
I will make it special. I'll bring it with...
Nope. A special one dollar more. </ P>
And for you? </ P>
Yes. I just want to eat fruit and a plate of cheese. </ P>
I have stomach ailments. </ P>
And we are a little rushed because...
You promise at 10:30 a.m. with Bernie. We will take you on time.
Good luck.
That's it.
Nice nest / Yes
If he says one word about distressed memories, I go.
Kay and Arnold, I'm glad you are here.
Well, we come together.
So, Arnold, I know intensive therapy is not your idea.
It's not!
Do you want to come along? </ p >
Yes.
All right. And Arnold, you? </ P>
I thought he was crazy. </ P>
We don't classify the same fees as other patients. </ P>
I thought you'd be surprised.
Even if we are, with all due respect. I am right don't see anything important here.
So, you don't think there is wrong with your marriage
We've been married for 31 years, right?
It's not perfect.
But in your opinion, works pretty well.
But you want to come along.
You persuaded Arnold?
No. I mean, I paid it. </ P>
with my own money, from savings. </ P>
All right. So this is really important to you. </ P>
Tell me the reason. </ P>
I want to remarry. </ P>
Lagi?
If we don't get married, I don't know who did it.
Arnold, so Kay speaks first and you can answer after that.
Okay. Well. "Again." </ P>
Arnold almost never touches me. and my shoulder, just for...
Just for... I don't know, because he wants it too.
And now is he?
And that bothers you.
Did you touch it?
Not really. He doesn't like it. </ P>
Is he right, Arnold? Do you like it when he touches you? </ P>
I don't know. </ P>
You don't know? / I don't think about that. </ P>
Alright. </ P>
There's something else, Kay? </ P>
It feels like we stayed at home together with two. ..
Ada yang lainnya, Kay?
Rasanya kita tinggal di rumah bersama-sama dengan dua...
With two workers who slept in the same room.
Except us... We are not in the same room.
but just feel like no one inherited us together — except his house.
Nobody inherited us together Approximately 31 years from...
From what, Arnold? / Marriage.
What do you mean by that?
This means we have a marriage certificate and I pay all the bills.
Not yet again we both add more adults...
You really lost your mind.
Let's try to keep discussing descriptive and positive.
Kay, please continue.
We never speak anything.
Talk! Why don't you know me more about this? </ P>
About Eileen and the dress she bought,
or if he takes back his little necklace with the Tiki service.
Oh my God.
No, I don't mean... I mean just... /> I only interpret it, I'm not
I didn't tell Arnold how I feel about all that. </ P>
And I don't know how his feelings about it all .
I told you how I felt with all this, I hated it.
All right. Sounds good. </ P>
Good. Yeah, good for you. </ P>
The more tears drip,
The more money we are looking for to pay you back to get us together,
Jesus . You're sadder than the lawyers. </ P>
I understand your feelings. </ P>
Really? </ P>
You two came here to try restore intimacy from your marriage.
So that it will be the destination of our session to focus more together,
To find a mutual way communicate each other's needs .
To regrow intimacy.
And to develop the means maintain the progress of intimacy.
The first step in is to rebuild marriage,
is to throw away some bad impression who has been fostered for years
This will be very painful, but very useful.
I like to think about things...
Have a "metaphor" when you have a septum who deviates and you can't breathe?
You have to rest the nose to fix it.
Charlatan!
No, he's worse than Charlatan. He's one of...
Say to him, "The sharpener of the method". The one thing he honed.
make sure you don't walk with the problem of marriage-destruction.
You won't go without it.
She's like an eye moisturizer that makes your eyes dry.
4 thousand dollars. That can be to buy a new roof! </ P>
Do you see an ID or just read the brochure if you...
I mean, my God! </ P> p>
Amazing! I want to see this person's annual tax letter. </ P>
Oh no. Come on, there's no need. </ P>
You have to stop yelling at me. </ P>
I don't shout! Who shouted? </ P>
Hey. Welcome back. </ P>
I'm Arnold Palmer and tuna. </ P>
Kau yakin sudah siap untuk berkomitmen?
I'll make soup and salad, please / Okey-dokey.
9 dollars for the meat, this is tuna sardine, a piece of cheese and toast, </ p >
Feld might bribe him.
I saw a grocery store near the motel.
We could buy some cut meat, and just eat it motel.
Are you here told by Bernie?
We come back every year,
For recovery.
The fact is you wonder , we never come back.
I mean, if I say so many sometimes rude words...
Do you want frozen salami or Do you want something like this here?
I don't care / I mean, my brother, Ralph,
Angela has brought her to one of the things...
You. I just hope you remember this next year,
When you want to say that I never helped and I never...
I will make Limburger, you don't have to eat it. </ P>
And I tell you one thing,
We will go to Florida and visit my mother knows ahead for 2 full weeks.
You have lost your right to complain.
Gosh! I only think of you for...
Go from the door! / I leave! </ P>
What happened to you? </ P>
I have to do that > and hold it down.
Oh, me too! It's broken, And the kid, he's playing badly. </ P>
That's a course at the University. </ P>
The Beginning of Accounting. </ P>
And Arnold as a teaching assistant.
What is your first impression on Kay, Arnold?
She's beautiful. Very beautiful. </ P>
What else? / He might not have to be experts in accounting
And Thanksgiving passed, there were no rings. </ P>
And my father said, "you chose the horse wrongly." </ P>
But two days later, I found it. </ P>
He swelled his ring, in cinnamon buns.
I was very surprised.
What held you back, Arnold?
It's not like buying a car.
And in winter, Arnold threw it back out. </ P>
I only helped Brad paint his room and...
He said it would be more comfortable I sleep alone.
It hurts me very much.
But then, he gets better again.
But still makes me a little angry a little. And also me...
He snores. / I really have trouble sleeping.
So he sleeps in the living room after that
Yeah.
Do you ask for it to go back?
No. I don't think he will...
No.
So this has been very long since you slept in the same room. </ P>
When was the last times you have sex?
Yeah.
I don't know / If so, we try to think about that.
Four years ago, almost five years. September. </ P>
When Brad moved after college. </ P>
September 22. I remember thinking, "Brad's move on the first day of autumn." </ P>
We take the photo, okay? </ P>
Makes you uncomfortable for talking about it, right?
Claim me because I don't want to talk about...
about having sex with my wife in front of a very strange person.
Do you want to talk about all that?
What else do you remember that day, kay?
How do you make love?
How?
What is a general position? Arnold above? </ P>
Oh, yeah. </ P>
Is he always in a general position? / Oh, that's right. </ P>
Most of it, huh.
Are there certain things when you enjoy it?
Most of it is the same.
Is your sex life satisfying?
okay? Yeah. Okay. </ P>
Okay. </ P>
I want to set your first practice. </ P>
What... What kind of...
Tonight , I want you to spend time holding hands.
What is... Why?
Because I want you to remember how it feels the same - touch each other.
Do you think you can do it?
Arnold? / Maybe because of that...
I mean, forcing intimacy... If that's true......
That isn't forcing intimacy / Sounds like that.
What? We should be honest here / You yourself. </ P>
Even though... as I said if I don't think about this exercise,
or whatever you call it, < That sounds like something...
It's not coercion / If I do that...
just because someone told me, what's the point?
I don't think I like the idea of someone who told me...
Maksudku, semua ide tentang latihan ini benar� konyol bagiku
I'm not a trained monkey!
You're indeed a bully! / What is
Since you were here, everything you do makes me feel... </ p >
Kay? Kay /... so bad. </ P>
I understand that. </ P>
Kay! </ P>
Kay. Kay. </ P>
Kay, come on. This is baby. </ P>
I thought you were the girl! </ P>
Listen... Where are you going? </ P>
This is crazy. </ P>
No, it's not crazy!
Where do you want to go?
You can enter. We don't bite. </ P>
What can I take? </ P>
Do you have red wine or white wine? </ P>
Do you like red wine? </ P>
p>
Yeah.
Then I bring the white one.
Trying to get back the magic of the past?
Yeah.
Have you ever got it?
Do you want a trip recording? It costs 4.95 dollars. </ P>
The problem is...
We really do not have sex, most of it. </ P>
So far.
That's it?
All right. Who is here not having sex? </ P>
Not me. </ P>
Mike, I know you didn't get it. </ P>
It's free from us / Thank you.
I'm back! / I know that.
I go to the museum / Oh yeah?
What is interesting? / Very.
Of course. If you want to leave. You have to do it yourself. </ P>
I'm ready to sleep. </ P>
Where do you want to go this afternoon? </ P>
Hanya jalan�.
I think you want to do that.
But if you don't want to do it, I don't care either.
All right. I go to bed. </ P>
I want to do it. </ P>
I think we can do it there. </ P>
I thought I would come in. </ P>
Maybe this is enough. </ P>
Yeah, maybe. </ P>
I'll turn off the lights. </ P>
Then we practice... / Yeah, you have to...
... and we wake up / Yeah.
And we are in the same bed.
Yeah, that's just... Yep / /> It will be very comfortable. </ P>
This is good. That's right. </ P>
By taking some time for yourself, you are able to have a good relationship as a partner. </ P>
And you two do it without trial.
Dia ingin menghabiskan waktu yang hilang/ Yeah. Aku sangat nakal.
Naughty like a wet cat.
But, you know, it's really fun, isn't it?
Doing something at your will, you know.
Good, you two. That's right. </ P>
I'm happy with the progress you've made. </ P>
And I think that will make it much easier to move on to the next step.
The next step. That's great. Let's listen. </ P>
I mean, we do it well. We might get out of here early. </ P>
Okay, the next step . What is that? </ P>
Writing poetry? Hold hands in public? Sing serenade? </ P>
Sex. </ P>
We will talk extensively about your sex history. </ P>
Kapan memulainya. Apa yang termasuk. Yang tidak termasuk.
If you get an orgasm, the woman or the previous one.
If you have a problem about sexuality or performance.
Are you talking about about sex during that time.
What you fantasize about.
If you ever do it with fantasy.
Bring toys or sex games to the bedroom. Bring sex outside the bedroom. </ P>
And after we explore all that stuff, I'll give you the first sex,
not sex, but sexuality, practice. </ P> p>
All right?
We start.
Arnold, will you start?
Do you...
I think we have to stop right now before...
We just have to fix our problem and do it.
I'm just the first. Will I did
Good.
Extraordinary.
Alright.
Kay, let's talk about what you like sexually.
Are you having sex < br /> fun for you?
Sometimes .
Do you get an orgasm?
Sometimes .
Do you masturbate / No .
No more.
Why not?
Because at some point, I just...
I don't think I want think of sex or about Arnold, though.
It just makes me sad to think of about what I miss and...
What about your fantasy life?
Have you ever fantasized?
What?
My fantasy, you know, we renew our promise.
Only small ceremony and, on the beach, maybe.
Right.
Maybe with kids there
Right. And do you get sexual fantasies? </ P>
Imagine the scenario? </ P>
Make love at the top of the mountain or dress all in leather? </ P>
That's funny once.
So why not.
What I especially think about Arnold and everything we do.
You never have fantasy < br /> about things you have never done?
No.
Okay. Okay. </ P>
All right. Arnold, let's talk about you. </ P>
Do you enjoy sexually? </ P>
Sex / I will ask you more specifically. </ P>
Okay, alright.
So you enjoyed the real sex act? Relationship? </ P>
Yeah. </ P>
General style. </ P>
Apa kau lebih suka untuk, katakanlah, seks oral?
I think so.
Is oral sex a choice? What is it something that you do regularly? </ P>
No, I, me, me, I don't... no. </ P>
I really don't... me. ..
I'm so uncomfortable talking about that.
Giving or receiving?
I don't know. Both, I guess. </ P>
Okay. So, now you, Arnold, will be open to that. </ P>
Then what's the problem? He just said that was not an option. </ P>
What about the problem in bedroom?
Have you ever experienced erectile dysfunction?
No.
Use alternative medicine like Viagra? / No.
Our age, sometimes , it could be...
Successful.
Apa yang kau katakan itu berhasil di hubungan seks mu...
when you do it together?
For example, until it reaches a climax? / Yeah.
Are there other things you want to do, but don't want it ?
You're kidding, right?
So?
I mean, who will reject it?
Right. Then continue. </ P>
What, do you want all the lists? </ P>
Sure. </ P>
I'm right don't understand everything. </ P>
Nothing wrong answer here.
So...
If you can have anything you want in your sex life with Kay, what is that?
Do you have a fantasy that you feel uncomfortable to say to Kay? </ P>
Of course. </ P>
I think I used it to think about Kay giving me... .
Give me Oral...
You know...
When working. Under the table. </ P>
When paying taxes. </ P>
So, in a public place. </ P>
No, not only in public places. </ P>
No ? Okay. Good, good. Very good. </ P>
What's more? </ P>
"threesome." </ P>
With? / Neighbors. </ P>
> Helen? </ P>
No, Carol. </ P>
Carol? </ P>
Carol with the "corgis dog"? </ P>
Very good, Arnold. You two. </ P>
I'll give you a second follow-up exercise. </ P>
Do you think we're sitting alone isn't enough? </ P>
Well,
might lie down
Do you want the first one?
Do you want me too?
Six of one, half a dozen for others.
Is that okay?? / Fine only.
Is it feeling good?
It feels like it's stroked by a dog.
Tick it. Don't... / Sorry. Okay. </ P>
Don't hold it there / I'm sorry. </ P>
I'm right... don't see the essence of...
I mean, Dr. This feld,
you think he has another legitimate doctor who agrees with him here,
or thinks he could be some kind of rebel? </ P>
You, I mean, well, we,
flat, everyone, you can just be treated by someone who is psychotic.
or maybe someone who just above the mean,
or even the practitioner below the level.
I think we better stop.
What?
Are you sure? / Yeah, I thought I was just...
I went to the bedroom. </ P>
Jadi, kalian berdua tadi malam latihan saling menyentuh.
How does it feel?
What do you think?
Okay, let's talk about this. Arnold. </ P>
What does it feel like Kay touches you? / Okay, I guess. </ P>
What does it feel like? </ P>
What is it that stimulates you? </ P>
What do you feel? / aroused.
What about you, Kay? What do you feel?
I'm aroused, too / Are you know that, Arnold?
How can I know what what he thinks and feels?
What about you, Kay, when Arnold touches you? </ p >
We can't continue.
Why not? Why? / Because we stopped it. </ P>
We practice. It's finished. We do it. </ P>
Latihan itu adalah untuk menghabiskan jangka waktu saling menyentuh sensualitas.
Sounds like Kay touched you but you stopped it.
Do you want to talk about it?
Who stopped it?
That's my idea , okay. I just want to stop. I want...
Alright. Okay / I don't want to do it again. </ P>
All right. Let's go deeper. </ P>
It's better not to. </ P>
It's not enough just to be here. You should try it. </ P>
Don't I try it ? I flew 1,500 miles here for this and I didn't try it? </ P>
All right. Then, Let's try to find out. </ P>
Why do you want Kay to stop? / I want her to stop because...
Are you afraid? / No! Why am I afraid? </ P>
Ketakutan... Hey, kembali terlibat bisa.../ Aku tidak takut dengan istriku sendiri.
Good. That's nothing. That's okay. Feeling scared is normal. </ P>
I don't feel scared! </ P>
Then why did you stop Kay holding you? </ P>
Let me tell you something. I finished with all this for today. </ P>
I'm done. I'll meet you later at the motel. </ P>
Kay? </ P>
What are you doing? </ P>
Dr. Feld said he would return the fee. </ P>
How many percent? </ P>
What? </ P>
Did he say he returned all the payments, or...
Half / Half.
I don't know your way of thinking with everything that happens here.
What are you...
I mean, there's no pill or ajaibi stick or..., he's just an office guy.
This is ridiculous. You come here, you spend a week...
and you expect for, what, have a new marriage? </ P>
This is a rule. <
Then you feel bad for failing. You know that, right?
You can't win.
Why do you bring us here?
You know what you think always goes to something?
You think, "When we get married," or, "When we have children,"
or, "When the child goes away and only the two of us..."
You know, there is always something < br /> to see our purpose in the future too.
And one day, I realized that there would be nothing we were going to.
And I guess I'm just not willing to let go of those things even better.
Still not.
Maybe you just don't have a choice,
You know?
Maybe you just don't have a choice. Don't forget your razor in the bathroom.
You're back.
Let's we talked about it / No need.
Let's just... I'm back, okay? Maybe that's enough.
Not really, actually.
>
What do you want from me, blood?
You're always angry , Arnold. What are you thinking about until you do that?
I'm angry with everything. < br /> I'm angry here.
Why? What do you fear that will happen? </ P>
Do you want to know what that is? Well
is the possibility that happened in every office of this fucking therapist,
Every time a troubled couple is there.
You say whatever the problem is, because someone like you...
who dragged him out of their trouble and then you can't take it back.
There are things in this life that you don't say because there's a reason.
What is it like? What are you going to say?
Tell me.
I just want to know. I just curious.
Even worse if you don't know there are things that you hold back.
You didn't say it because you thought I was too fragile.
No, it's not like that. Only... / Something I can't hear. </ P>
Alright, fine! All right. </ P>
Dia mempunyai cara.../ Katakanlah pada Kay.
You have a way to say everything,
and when I make a decision there is something you don't like,
you don't actually say anything, But you're sure you got points there.
I can say, I don't like... Is this my turn?
I don't like the way that always < br /> we do it at Christmas or Birthday.
give gifts to each other at home, like a water heater.
You want that water heater / Yes, but you too. Your shower
Is that a special gift for me? </ P>
And I hate watching golf. Indeed. I thought it was boring. </ P>
And the program that tells all the things about golf, is ugly. </ P>
It's like getting married to ESPN. </ P>
And your breath smell, when you eat wheat chips,
I like wheat crackers.
And I hate when you kill me, like you just hope with what I do.
"Come on, let's go."
Gosh, that's the point. I'm afraid to make things run even more. </ P>
If I want to try kissing you so much...
You never kiss me. </ P>
You don't want kiss me, you just want "that"
Not me.
You know. He always keeps his eyes closed as if depressed. </ P>
It's not me. You just want "that." </ P>
Gosh, yes, I want "that." You can risk your life, I want "it"...
... do it with someone who doesn't want to do it.
Dan, kau tahu, itu tidaklah menyenangkan...
... melakukannya dengan seorang yang tidak ingin melakukannya.
But you never see me...
What?
Continue, Arnold.
I'm not complaining because Kay doesn't want sex .
Love. Because that's what I want. Not just sex. </ P>
I want you. </ P>
What about years , I want you? </ P>
Everyone has years. </ P>
And I'm not having an affair. </ P>
I'm not looking for a prostitute. </ P>
I sometimes see porn, but who never ?
I'm fine. I did the right things.
Now you bring me here to...
You're the one who stopped it, not me.
Yeah, for the moment I stopped, yes, but you stopped too.
Kau melakukannya. Kau berhenti.
You don't need to start and finish it, you know?
Maybe if it's finished, will be finished.
Done.
I want you to do something for me.
You want to tell me about the best sex you've ever done.
The time you remember is the best. Wrong one of you.
Even though it's not very good or also sickening.
The best time you remember.
Then...
I remember once.
When Kay got pregnant.
Where were you? / In the kitchen.
She was cooking soup.
She was cooking soup. p>
And I came to her and Kay kept saying she had to stir the soup.
Soon, she forgot the soup.
And slowly ,
He... he put some napkins behind my head.
so my head doesn't hit...
no lumps affected by the bottom of the closet.
That's what happened.
Arnold, what else do you remember that?
Just wanted it.
Stand in the kitchen there.
Be happy.
It's beautiful.
He has a small apron that starts makes it very small because...
His stomach began to grow.
You were very interested in him at that time.
Yeah, sure, and...
Do you still like that?
I don't... I don't know.
It's been a long time since we...
I don't look like I'm the one who did it at that time / No, that's not it.
No. I've never reduced my weight. </ P>
You just look good. I just didn't think of that way anymore. </ P>
About him like that again.
Of course, I...
No, it's not "of course."
Sometimes if the connection is broken, we forget what what we want.
Do you still want Kay?
Yes!
Do you still fantasize about it?
You mean, now?
Today.
I don't know.
I'm not... I...
I have one.
I have a fantasy.
What is that...
That is... That is... it is...
As you said. That is just the two of us,
Something we've never done before.
Something new.
I will ask you to keep believing as confident and trying something .
This is one way that allows you to get out of your pleasure area.
Try to think about things that...
remind you of metaphors from a broken nose?
It's about the nose.
You can't break your nose softly, right?
Of course there is a problem with the Popcorn Cooker.
Thank you.
I don't see why you didn't tell me what you planned.
Because of him say it will be fine ini just this way.
It just makes me uncomfortable to find out what I will ask to do.
If it's your turn, you can do what you want.
What if we don't practice anymore? We run it quickly here. Okay. </ P>
This is your "ball" game. </ P>
I told you one thing. </ P>
You never invited me to see French films if we were at home
This is very good.
Sorry.
I'm sorry, I can't see!
You just need to slow down. Pay attention to his teeth!
I'm sorry. Sorry, I didn't mean... / It's okay
I can't see. </ P>
Yes, Lord. </ P>
Hey, you can hurt someone!
I'm sorry! I can't do this.
Kay. Kay. Kay. </ P>
Kay, it's fine / That's not okay ! </ P>
Itu bukannya tidak apa�.
Kay, listen.
Kay, this is not a big problem / I should...
I'm not good at anything. </ P>
There's nothing to be good at! / I don't know how to be better for anything. </ P>
Listen, wait / I'm not sexy!
Wait. Yes, you are very...
What? Yes, What? </ P>
Maybe you just can't...
There might be certain things that are not your experience. </ P>
Kay!
I look really stupid!
But how do you feel?
Like a fake.
I just don't... I... I can't do that.
All that work is very dangerous,
with people holding the glass, and behind the chair forward .
and go back and forth in a narrow space,
concrete floors, lots of people everywhere.
It's not me.
I just can't be people who commit illegal acts in theaters.
That's just... is that right what should I do?
It's not about being a sex object.
It's about pleasing the person you you love and let it please you.
I don't even know how to do that!
On finally, I think you should ask yourself.
"Is this person more valuable to me than my pride?"
Oh yeah. I mean...
Yes.
Kay puts everything in the limit here. What do you put in the boundary?
Everything. </ p >
He's everything.
But I'm really lonely.
And I think...
To be with someone and really not with him...
I thought maybe a little lonely if I was alone. </ P>
Do you want to be alone? / No! </ P>
I don't know. </ P>
You don't think it will be very it's hard just touching someone you love.
Because of that. That's right. It's hard. </ P>
Okay. You know what? </ P>
I'll give you something...
that might help with your anxiety. </ P>
You can take it in the city. </ P>
Hey / Hai. Hello. </ P>
We have a discount for trade novels in front, if you are interested. </ P>
Are you looking for something special? / Not really. </ P>
Okay, just curious. </ P>
Apa kau punya daftarnya, nona?
No, no... I'm just...
I'm just saying that you have a list, I can ask first
Our display space is very small here, so we keep a lot of stuff behind.
Actually, I'm looking for...
"Sex Tips for Lugu Women from a Homo Man . "
Oh, yeah. Dr. Feld told us to save the stock. </ P>
Okay. </ P>
Can I pay cash? </ P>
Yeah, it's okay. </ P>
There are two reasons for the couple who met me. </ P>
Help save their marriage, or...
Or what? </ P>
Or help them end it.
When one of them is unhappy,
the marriage must be returned to be balanced, or...
Or what? Are you trying to tell me if my marriage is over? </ P>
Because I won't pay you for more than one session...
just because you threatened me, < Br /> You arrogant little bastard!
Arnold, your wife is very unhappy.
And I didn't say that she would leave soon.
I just don't want you to do something to regret that...
I just said what is now here,
and you can ask yourself, "Did I do everything I could?"
Can you, Arnold?
Is this the only best that can do you?
I'm sorry, there...
Listen, I can... maybe a little tips to help, you know.
Do you want to buy a table? / I need it.
So whatever it is...
Look, I need it.
Listen I really regret whatever happened to your marriage,
but I don't think dinner won't save her.
I need a table.
I need it, and I won't leave here until I get it.
We will need more space here,
so I want you to push further to the wall. Right? </ P>
All right. </ P>
Hello, Captain Jack. </ P>
Sorry I didn't hear that, Mr. Fletcher. What time is that? </ P>
All right. </ P>
Thank you for contacting. I hope you come and visit us often
Thank you very much. Ah. </ P>
Baiklah.
It's hard to finish
So?
There's a waiting list and must contact them.
Do you have a waiting list? You're going to give me the table, so help me God! </ P>
Are you ready? </ P>
I'm almost ready. </ P>
You're right? Ready? Because I don't want to be late.
Yes, I'm right siap ready.
Very beautiful / Thank you.
You also look right an handsome / Yeah, of course.
You're a handsome devil.
Oh, Arnold. Very beautiful! </ P>
I just can't get more than that! </ P>
Do you like it? </ P>
It's the same...
is a little different from at Econo Lodge?
Very different.
That place reminds me when we go there to visit your mother,
before we get married.
And we live in that little place...
You know, that's the only place that is open,
It's a truck stop. </ P>
In Albuquerque? </ P>
Oh, I remember that. The orange wall. </ P>
Yeah. </ P>
That's the first time you said that.
The first time you said you loved me.
At that little motel.
You know, before you say it...
I don't want to be the first person say that first time.
But I just... I can say that!
So every time we talk by telephone.
I always say it on the phone after we close it!
Really?
Yes, I right do that.
I thought that if I ever said like that, you would walk away.
What?
You can choose your choice.
I am not think you ever want me.
I never want anything else.
What I don't understand is how he remembers to say it like that.
"Consideration of the metaphor of his nose."
I know. It must be very difficult for him. </ P>
I want to know if he spoke to his wife like that / It could be...
"Mildred, I think it will be very interesting > if you are naked "
Can I get something else?
Are you... / No, I'm fine
Okay. no, just check.
Unless you want it too
Maybe it's cold on the way home.
It's getting colder at night.
The problem is, I...
I don't know how you will say it,
but I got a room for us.
Here.
You did it?
There is a toothbrush at the front desk. I ask them.
I thought maybe just for one night, it could be...
You might want to...
So,
after this, we can only...
Like this?
Gosh!
Oh, my God.
Look at this.
Look at this!
Strawberry.
You have to try it,
So here they are.
>
By the way, do you want to?
Strawberries.
Yeah, me too. And they know that. This is a gift, really, you spend 15...
It's nothing. You know, I think I can bring some. </ P>
Yeah? / Yeah. </ P>
Okay. </ P>
Do you want to eat it on the table? / Okay. </ P>
Or we can eat it in front of a bonfire / Okay. </ P>
Okay. </ P>
So sweet. </ P>
Is that delicious? </ P>
Delicious. Still fresh. </ P>
Good. </ P>
Very tasty / delicious. </ P>
Do you want more? / There is champagne, if you want. </ P>
Yeah. I know... / I'm sorry. Take it. </ P>
No, you took it. </ P>
There's champagne. </ P>
Do you want more? / I think I like that, Arnold. </ P>
I thought you had something in your mind. </ P>
Yes, indeed. </ P>
Tahan pikiran itu/ Apa?
Hold that thought / Okay.
Come here.
I want... I want...
You want to...
p>
All right. You want to... You want to... / Yeah. </ P>
Look at me. </ P>
You're lying / No.
When Dr . Feld asks you, if you're still interested in me. </ P>
That's when you look at me. </ P>
Now,
You look at my face. </ P>
There's nothing to do with that.
That's when you stop.
Obstacles are a natural part of the process. They never feel good, really.
I know you feel like you've failed.
but see where your failure is. You fumble on the one-yard line.
So I thought you were ready to take therapy at home.
I can recommend someone who is right good.
I have a patient who never married.
And you don't belong to that person.
Even a big marriage has a boring year.
Very bad if you are tempted to give up just like that.
But don't.
Wait a minute.
One day will come, when you will look back at this time.
as an introduction to something more complete.
and richer than you ever dreamed of.
Soames! / Yo.
Hey, how's the vacation? / Good!
Yeah. where is it, Vermont? / Maine.
Maine. Benar sekali. Kau bilang Kay menyukai lautnya.
So what? Will you go there again? </ P>
Maybe not. A little expensive. </ P>
Yeah. I hear you, but, hey, if this is still happiness next year.
I'll say it's worth with the money you spent! / Yeah.
Jon Ross came today.
You would think that it was the first time he had heard
October 15 was the extension deadline.
That person never filed on time in his life! </ P>
And we have the same conversation every year. </ P>
Every year. </ P>
For 17 years.
Can you imagine that?
Hi, again, everyone. Golf School reopens for one week
This week, Episode 24, "everything about Putting Strokes"
I'm Kraig Kann. This is Professor, Martin Hall
Refuse. We will show you tonight
Yes. We all want to hit lower each time...
So you have fun? </ P>
It's a bit difficult to get back to the old routine. </ P>
What is that? </ P>
You look like crying / No! </ P>
Do you still need someone to keep the cat when you leave? </ P>
Oh, we already have the neighboring girl next door.
But I don't believe it. He isn't smart.
I can take care of him.
>
Really?
Gosh, are you sure? Because I think I might be able to carry my backup key. </ P>
And maybe I can stay overnight
Last night, or two nights. </ P>
I'll see Caine Mutiny later.
Do you want to watch that? / I don't think so.
I just want to go to bed.
Kay / I'm just a little tired. </ P>
Is it true that everything is bad? </ P>
It's just hope. </ P>
Like someone who has been changed his appearance, you know ?
You look different for a minute and then come back to yourself, right?
Right?
I don't know if I can.
What?
I don't know if I can go back.
Are you sure this can be a gallon?
Yes, sir, can hard. Just take it from the pantry, sir.
I thought you'd wonder why did I call at this meeting.
As you all know now, we have to find a very good dessert for dinner.
Cold ice cream and strawberries.
An hour ago, I told Whittaker to the pantry to bring the other parts. </ P>
Kay. </ P>
You're so beautiful. </ P>
You... You...
I'm late.
Okay.
Have a nice day / Okay.
Chicken tonight / Good.
p>
With potatoes and maybe some spinach / Good. Without spinach. </ P>
Okay. 6:00? / 5:30. </ P>
Is there a problem? </ P>
Did you forget? </ P>
Have a nice day. </ P>
Arnold !
Arnie!
Hi!
Carol!
Do you have more corgi?
How about your trip?
Our journey is very... Our journey is really... very...
You have to come tonight and we will tell you all those things.
Good too. I like that. </ P>
Yeah. </ P>
All right. I'll meet you later. </ P>
Okay. </ P>
That won't happen
Kay. Arnold. </ P>
We are all here today to watch renewal of your marriage vows. </ P>
We are very happy, and especially I am very happy. </ P >
Being here and being part of from this very special day.
Arnold, after 32 years of marriage,
I honestly say I love you more than I've ever done.
Our meeting day changes my life.
Makes me live.
And now I can't imagine living life without you.
It won't be any life at all.
When I think about spend the rest of my life with you,
I'm just sorry it won't be long enough.
So I want to know...
make episodes of life we together next.
Something we both love.
I swear to watch golf with you without complaining.
I swear not to reduce watching golf,
and buy you good prizes not to fill the house. </ P>
Maybe like jewelry / Like jewelry .
Jewelry. Yes. </ P>
I swear not to cut my hair shorter than this, because I know you like the long one. </ P>
Lebih panjang.
I swear not to complain much.
If I can help,
because sometimes there is something that really needs to be complained about.
And I swear to go to one of the "sleep" lessons
as you have suggested to me. </ P>
And I swear to take you somewhere once a year more than 200 miles away from home.
and not to visit family members.
Now, on this happy day.
I give you the rest of my life,
and I thank God every day if you receive it,
And I swear to tell you how I feel,
not only when you ask me.
And I'll tell you how do I feel about all this.
I like it. I love you. </ P>
We have a ceremony "break the nose"
Look? It is not difficult. </ P>
Thank you. </ P>
Yes, big boy. </ P>
Congratulations. </ P>
I am happy to meet you! / Finally!
Brad, Brad, Brad!