Alright, honey, now it's time to go to bed.
Mother, can Daddy accompany me to sleep?
Can't , Dad is on duty tonight at the fire station. </ P>
But Daddy will go home tomorrow night. </ P>
Mother, I want to marry daddy. </ P>
Really ? Catherine, you can't marry your father.
He has become my husband.
Then, if you are married, may you be my husband? <
The marriage is never finished. You have to marry someone else.
Can I wear a white dress and gloves?
of course only, if you want it.
will we be happy forever?
Only if you marry the guy who really loves you.
Like Daddy? </ P>
Seperti Ayah.
-Hey, Terrel, I'm sorry. -It's not a game.
You're playing with someone else's life.
Come on.
Eric, he has the right to be angry. </ P>
You left him there alone then went trying to be a hero. </ P>
I thought I heard someone ask for help. </ P >
That's the sound from outside the building.
It was dark, I didn't see it.
That's why you shouldn't leave your partner. He thinks...
... that something happened to you and you need his help. </ P>
You never left your partner, especially in the middle of a fire.
Give him some time then apologize.
- Do it sincerely. -Yes, sir.
-Hey, Tasha -Oh, hey, Cat.
Baru saja melihatmu di TV. Bagus sekali.
Oh, I missed it. I'm doing something else. </ P>
-Hey, is Robin home? -No, he's still there. </ P>
Robin, Cat is looking for you.
-Hey. -What are you doing?
Fine. How about you? </ P>
Fine. Hey, is it tomorrow? </ P>
Yes, at 4. You still want aromatherapy candles right? </ P>
Of course. Take it all. </ P>
-I want to try it. -Good. </ P>
I'll meet my parents this weekend. </ P>
-Kurasa they will like it too -Oh, how are they?
Did you know, it's been a year my mother has a stroke?
I kept trying to get a mattress and a new wheelchair for him...
... but our finances are not ever enough to buy it.
I don't know. My father is desperate.
He really wants to help him, but he also doesn't have enough finance.
-Sorry -Nothing.
Alright, I have to go.
-But we meet again tomorrow, right? -Yes, until tomorrow.
-Okay, bye. -Bye.
-Hey, Catherine. -Sorry, Dr. Keller. </ P>
Just call Gavin
Gavin, sorry I'm late this hit you often. </ P>
-It's okay. Nice to meet you. -Scen met you. See you later. </ P>
Good woman. </ P>
-Tasha, can you please file this for me? -Sure, doctor. </ P>
I think doctor Gavin has special feelings for cathrine. </ P>
-Hi, honey. -Hai, daddy. </ P>
-What are you doing? -Very good . Nice to meet you. </ P>
Dad too. </ P>
Hai, Ibu. Apa kabar?
He's fine too.
Do I want to get a drink?
-Was there sweet tea? -With lemon?
You know what I like. </ P>
Oh, Mother, I hope we can chat. </ P>
It's been a long time since I heard your voice. </ P>
I miss you .
- Have breakfast? -ya.
-What's the breakfast? -The last remaining bread and yogurt.
What You can't shop buy food for a while?
Caleb, you work 24 hours then you take off for 48 hours.
-You have more time. -I just asked a simple thing.
I don't want to argue. At least leave me breakfast.
I don't know when you go home or leave. You never said. </ P>
Catherine, what's your problem? </ P>
Apa aku pengganggu di rumah ini?
You can't expect me to work every day while going shopping...
... while you're busy playing the internet while continuing to dream of buying a boat.
You chose the job.
-No one told you to work full-time. -We need the money.
Especially after you start set aside one third of your salary...
... we don't need a ship that is at all.
You have $ 24,000 in your savings while this house needs money for repairs.
What is it like?
The back door needs to be repainted, The page needs to be tidied up.
And I want to add some cabinets in the kitchen.
That's not a need but additional needs.
Itu dua hal yang berbeda. Jika kau menghabiskan uangmu untuk hal-hal seperti itu, silahkan.
I saved for the ship for years. You won't take it from me.
This conversation is useless. I don't have time for this.
Yeah, close the door when you leave. </ P>
This doesn't work, Michael. </ P>
How can I be appreciated wherever I go...
.... except in my own house?
I've experienced it, and it's not easy.
What are you doing?
I realized it wasn't < br /> my marriage is broken / failed.
I just don't know how to run it.
What do you mean?
The treadmill isn't broken.
But if you don't know how to run it, it will be useless.
Do you think I need counseling?
I think everyone needs counseling.
Hey, I won't go to talk to other people I don't even know...
... about something is none of their business. </ p >
Okay. Catherine must respect you.
But you must remember, the woman is like a rose.
If you treat it properly, He will bloom. </ P>
If not, he will wither. </ P>
Where did you get those words? </ P>
counseling. </ P>
Great. </ P>
What are you doing? </ P>
Looks like you don't leave the pizza. </ P>
I just lit that candle. I like the fragrance.
But I don't. You don't leave food at all?
I thought you had eaten with Michael.
Did you never realize....
... that there are two people in this house and both need to eat?
Oh huh? if you try communicate with me...
... maybe I can prepare something for you.
why are you always making things difficult?
Oh, so I made it difficult?
I'm here taking care of a lot of things While you're busy yourself.
WHAT?
I work to pay for this home loan, and I also pay for both of our cars. </ P>
Well, that's all you do. I pay for all of our needs.
Which you have agreed to from the beginning. That's fair. </ P>
Don't you like this house? You don't like your car? </ P>
Caleb, who is taking care of this house? </ P>
Me. Who washed clothes? </ P>
Me. Who shop for our needs? </ P>
Me. Not to mention I help my parents every week. </ P>
Aku tertekan oleh semua ini.
Whereas all you do is for yourself.
Let me tell you, the first you don't know which is called depressed.
Alright? do you think I put out someone's home for myself?
or did I wake up at two in the morning to the office for myself?
or I saved a small child who drowned for myself?
You don't know what I've experienced.
Yeah, but what are you doing here apart from watching TV....
... and wasting time on the internet?
If you see that porn trash makes you feel satisfied, whatever.
But I don't will compete with that.
Indeed I don't get satisfaction from you.
And you will never get it.
Because you're more concerned with the savings you saved for your stupid ship...
... and yourself than you think of me.
STOP! I'm sick of it! </ P>
You're a woman who can't respect people, ungrateful, selfish! </ P>
-I'm not selfish. -Beran you say is that so?
You keep demanding this. disturbing my life!
I'm tired!
If you can't give respect that I deserve -
Look at me!
- then what's the need for this marriage?
I want to get out.
I just want to exit.
If you mean divorce, I won't oppose it!
Mr. Rudolph. </ P>
Caleb. </ P>
-It's all. -Alright. </ P>
Selesai. Kurasa kita sudah siap.
I think I've memorized it.
-You have memorized all parts of this truck? -Yeh.
Alright. I'm telling you. </ P>
We'll go inside for a drink. </ P>
You get a hose puller. </ P>
Okay. </ P>
-You're so cruel -No, just a little.
Mother's gift. -Okay.
-and-- -Oh yeah, I forgot tell you.
-Friday I have a day off, so I go home. -Good.
You know I won't disappoint my child.
I really know.
Hey, dating & apos; hot & apos; we will be tomorrow, right ??
Oh, so it's now called dating & apos; hot & apos;
Life is only a moment we use it well.
You're right.
-I love you, baby. -I love you too.
-And see you tomorrow morning. -Yes.
-I go home. -Yes, see you later.
Eric, what are you doing?
Wayne told me to take a hose puller.
-Interesting the hose? -Yes, sir. </ p >
Eric, you're the hose puller.
Damn.
Honey, I agree. You have to divorce.
-He isn't worth it for you. -Yes I strongly agree.
A real man must be a hero to his wife before anyone else, or he is not a real man.
Are you need a place to live? I can't be able to imagine staying with him. </ P>
No, I've decided I'm not the one who has to go. </ P>
-He's the problem, not me. - Right, girl. You have to be strong. </ P>
Make him respect you. </ P>
If there is something a man understands...
Respek. Itu masalahnya. Itulah alasan runtuhnya pernikahan kami.
He doesn't respect me at all. and the sadest part...
He is totally unconscious.
He thinks of our marriage All this time it's been fine.
You know, he might think...
Our marriage was fine until the beginning of this year.
Now suddenly, he changes like this.
Do you think everything happened suddenly?
I don't know what to do. I don't understand himself.
He is very emotional.
He becomes irritable and very very sensitive.
I mean, he is very heartless, do you know?
He doesn't care what I think. He never heard me.
Even though I said it repeatedly.
then he instead said that I demanded a lot of and according to him I didn't listen...
... or more or less like that.
He makes me stressful. I seem to start...
Crazy.
He doesn't want to understand my needs. </ P>
I feel we are now like to be at all....
doesn't match anymore. </ P>
He is now possible talking to his friends, making me like a criminal.
I think they're now together crying, and even hugging.
Take it easy, honey All will be fine.
You will be able to pass it.
We support you.
Whatever you need. Whatever you need. </ P>
So do you think this has reached the point where you can't go back? </ P>
I have no reason to return. </ P>
- Bethany. -Hey, Kyle. Hey, Ross. </ P>
-Ada apa? -Apa yang sedang kalian lakukan?
We will go to the pizza shop meet friends.
You want to come along?
of course.
Hey We race. If you win, we treat. </ P>
Ready...
Go, go, go. </ P>
Hello, yeah. </ P>
No, not really.
I think Catherine and I are done.
No, it's over.
He said he wanted to get out.
Of course, you may come here tomorrow. I'm at home.
Well, I have to go.
Public Safety to Engine 1 , Battalion 1. </ P>
Please respond at the intersection Roosevelt and Kelley, 1 0-50-I. </ P>
-Time out, 12:21. - Hey, it's close. </ P>
Lieutenant, you and Terrell Take another truck and go with us. </ P>
Oke, Kita berangkat.
Engine 1 is heading to to Roosevelt and Kelley, 1 0-50.
Accepted, Engine 1.
Lieutenant, you and Sanders prepare cutting tool if we need it.
-You come with me when we arrive. -Yes, sir.
It turns out it's crowded.
-You see it? -There is one car in the middle of the rail.
You're kidding.
Oh, it looks bad.
Engine 1, this is 1 0- 23. </ P>
Here two vehicles crash with the possibility of someone being trapped. </ P>
One vehicle in the middle of the rail. </ P>
Notify the train officer to stop < br /> all trains are running.
Received. As soon as possible.
-New kid, you're with me. -Yes, sir. Come on all. </ P>
You two, check the car. Then tell me. </ P>
I need a dividing line around
Harmon, check the passengers.
Tolomg all give room and move away from the tracks and cars.
I'm captain Holt from the department firefighter.
-We came to help. -Help me. I can't get out. </ P>
-Where's the pain? -Kaki hurts a lot. </ P>
-Please, help me. -Leave, we'll help you.
Okay. Where else is sick? </ P>
My neck hurts. Please, help me. </ P>
We will get you out. You will be fine. </ P >
Don't leave me. Don't let me die.
I promise I won't leave you.
-You will be fine. -Kapten
-He is still alive but not moving. -Take the mark.
Two other people are okay. They are only lightly injured.
We have to cut the car. Sander, please Harmon.
-Check there is no gas leak. -Yes, sir.
Ambulance is here
-I will be here. -Okay.
You will hear a noise.
That means we are getting you out. </ p >
-All right. Calm yourself. -Okay. </ P>
-Kapten, did I hear the train? -All, there is a train going here. </ P>
Dispatchers, Here Roosevelt. </ P>
Here there is still a car on the rail. </ P>
Give all the trains that are running to pause. </ P>
Roosevelt , we apologize...
... we can't contact all trains.
We don't have much time.
We have to force him to get out of this rail.
No, I don't want to die. I don't want to die.
Alright, let's all. Push. </ P>
Captain, the car doesn't move. We have to tow it. </ P>
-Take the mine. -Hey, Wayne, hook the mine. </ P>
Quickly hook.
Hey, the train is coming!
-Kapten, we have to pick it up. -All right, lift the front.
In the third count. one, two, three.
Again. one, two, three.
Again. Come on. We have to lift it off the rail. </ P>
one, two, three. </ P>
Again. One, two, three. </ P>
, captain. -one, two, three. </ P>
One, two, three. </ P>
Harmon , go back and take a stretcher.
Medical!
-You are all right? -Come on, hurry away.
You're all right what. You will be fine.
Thank you, Lord.
Thank you, God.
Are you okay?
Captain, Give me a few minutes.
Looks like I broke the record how close I am to death.
Don't try to solve it again next time.
I didn't try to solve it too.
Hey.
Don't tell my wife. </ P>
-Hey, lieutenant? -Yeah? </ P>
What did this happen often? </ P>
Do you mean to endanger your life? Yes. </ P>
But that was the first time I faced a train. </ P>
-Do you not be afraid of death? -No. </ P>
Because I know I'll
It's just that I don't want to go there because of being hit by a train.
What if you help me prepare dinner?
Alright .
Hey, Captain, wait a minute.
Where do you know?
-I want to go to my room. -Not that's what I meant.
Do you believe in heaven or hell?
I don't know.
If I die, I will enter the ground. And I will stay there forever.
You and Michael seem to be very sure, But one of you is wrong.
Definitely not me.
How do you know?
Hey, listen, you might disagree with Michael...
... But we both know he is right.
my child, how long has this happened?
I don't know , daddy. We often have a fuss, again and again...
... but now it seems like he always doesn't like everything I do. </ P>
Misalnya, Ketika aku masuk rumah tiba-tiba ia marah tanpa alasan.
Are you sure you didn't upset him?
I just found out that Catherine is very confusing.
When I work I save someone else...
... and if that's why I'm not at home helping him doing the dishes, then I'm a bad husband.
But, Caleb, he really needs your help too.
Didn't he help his parents every week?
-He can't do everything for you. -You seem to be on his side.
But he works and she -
mom, I don't need you to teach I'm not wrong.
Catherine that needs to be advised. I'm not the problem, but she is.
-I want to say, if he works-- -Cheryl, we hear his opinion.
I wonder what happened to him.
Father , can we talk alone?
Caleb, I just want to help you and Catherine.
Yeah. - Dear.
Why didn't you let us out for a while? no nothing will happen.
Okay.
Well, why did you bring mom?
Caleb, because he is my wife.
and he is your mother, nobody loves you more than him.
but he-- he always fixes me.
and he still does it. I am not like a broken item.
My child, if you are looking for the perfect mother...
... I'm afraid you won't find it.
But your mother is a good woman.
and I love him more than everything.
I don't not love him, yeah. it's just that -
He has a lot of me.
Haven't you seen it change in the past two years?
Yes, he treats you better.
But you sacrificed a lot for him a few years.
So does your mother.
Father , I'm grateful you didn't divorce...
... but I also understand if you split up. </ P>
Do you know why we don't part? </ P>
I think mother realizes she can't do anything alone
Not.
Caleb, God did it.
He helped us both.
God? </ P>
-He thanked God? -What's bothering you? </ P>
You always believe in God. </ P>
If indeed God exists, He doesn't I'm interested in me or my problem.
I disagree. I think he's very interested.
Then where is he all this time?
He worked around you all this time. You just didn't realize it.
You don't really invite Him in your heart.
What is this place?
First along this lake Summer camps are often used.
here is also included.
My son, I have been in your position.
I don't care about God.
But I've changed.
I don't understand why God must be crucified on the cross -
well, please.
We've talked about it last month.
I'm glad your mom and dad have such beliefs, really.
However...
I'm not so.
Caleb...
... is there a part of you who wants to save this marriage?
Maybe. If Catherine wants that, but no. He wants a divorce. </ P>
Is that what you want? </ P>
Aku ingin ketenangan.
But what else can I do?
He signed his papers, well, it's over.
Have you agreed to it and started the divorce process ?
Not yet, but I'm sure we both know where our marriage is going.
I plan to meet my lawyer tomorrow.
Caleb , I want you to do something.
What?
I want you to postpone divorce for 40 days.
Why?
I'll send something in your mailbox.
Something that really requires during that time.
-What is that? < br /> - Something that will save your marriage.
Daddy, if it's a religious thing, I hope you don't do it.
Look at it as a gift from your father.
Do it one day at a time, then see what happens.
Please, my child. Do it for me.
I ask you as a father.
-40 days? -40 days.
-Eat alone? -hello, Dr. Keller. </ P>
-Gavin. -Gavin, sorry. </ P>
-What are you doing? -Good. </ P>
I just need a place to save this food.
Has this place been ordered?
Deidra should meet me here, but you may join us.
I just don't want a problem.
Are you going to eat while wearing your clean white work clothes?
I have to follow the latest trends.
It looks like the doctors are using the same clothes like this.
But maybe it doesn't really fit if I wear it while eating.
I don't know if the doctor cares about trends.
We follow the trend because doesn't want to lose...
... with what is used worker the Public Relations section.
I see.
Because only one person works in that field...
.... I'm sure he feels flattered.
Must. She's a great woman. </ P>
Hey, you look good. </ P>
Thanks. I like taking care of myself. </ P>
Do you like this song? </ P>
Oh yeah. </ P>
Do you feel it? </ P>
It's chemistry, and we have it.
Wayne won't leave you.
-Hey, did you see my bag inside here? -No, nothing.
OK. Maybe in my locker. </ P>
Where are we? </ P>
Oh, come on. This is not funny. </ P>
Ini bukan pertunjukan.
This is mine.
Terrell!
Wayne.
40 days? does Catherine know?
I won't tell him.
If he insists, it's up to him.
Divorce is heavy.
okay, but if you give peace...
But, Caleb, you want that calmness.
What do you mean?
You know the meaning of the ring on your finger? </ P>
-That's, I'm married. -Yes. </ P>
That also means you make an agreement for life.
You put the ring on while making your promise.
Which is a pity for many people...
.... when two couples promised in joy and sorrow...
... actually they only wanted to like it.
Catherine and I love each other when we get married, but now...
... we are two people different.
Marriage we failed this time.
Caleb, salt and pepper are very different.
the appearance of both, the taste and color.
But both are always together.
and when you....
wait a minute.
what will you do?
Michael. Hey. </ P>
What are you doing that for? </ P>
Caleb, when two people get married, that's for joy and sorrow. </ P>
Rich and poor.
It hurts and is healthy.
I know that.
But marriage doesn't mean fire resistance. Sometimes, you will burn.
Fire resistance doesn't mean the fire won't come...
... but if the fire comes, you can survive.
-You don't have to glue it. -Don't do it, Caleb.
If you pull it now, you will damage one or both of them.
I might not be perfect, but it's better than most people. </ P>
And if my marriage fails, it's not my fault. </ P>
But, Caleb, me often see you running into a burning building...
... to save the person you don't even know.
But you will leave your marriage itself burned to the ground.
Michael, you are my friend.
That's why I let you free talk to me at this job.
Don't make me change my mind. </ P>
My son, for 40 days don't take it lightly. </ P>
There will be a lot of obstacles and difficult obstacles... .
... but the results will be very beautiful.
If you made it through 40 days...
... the results will change your life < br /> and your marriage.
Think of this as a challenge from someone else that you have never done.
Day 1: This first challenge enough simple.
Even though love can be expressed in many ways...
... our words often show the state of our hearts.
Today...
... don't say things that are negative to your partner.
If you feel upset or angry, better say nothing.
It's better to hold your tongue than say things you regret later.
everyone should be quick to hear, but slow to speech and also slow to anger.
James 1: 1 9.
Will you take him to the dry clean today?
If you remember you were off for two days, you should have done it.
Day 2:
It's hard to show love if you are less motivated.
But love isn't really because of feelings...
... but because of the desire to give something...
... even though it seems you won't get a reply.
In addition to not saying things negative for your partner...
... show an unexpected attitude on your partner to show your good intentions.
I have prepared your coffee. </ p >
I don't have time to drink coffee.
Day 3:
When you invest time, energy, and your money on something... </ p >
... this will be important for you.
It's hard to love things not invested.
While doing what you did...
... buy your wife something that /> show you think about it today.
Yes, I want to order flowers or anything for my wife.
No. No, problem. </ P>
Sure. How much is it? </ P>
$ 45? Nothing is cheaper? </ P>
Yes, just like that. I took the $ 25. </ P>
What about the brown box or the like?
How much is it?
You blackmail me.
That's better.
Okay, what if a little teddy bear?
Alright, forget the doll.
How long have you prepared it?
Hey, you're overdoing it.
Terrell, I can lift up to 300kg.
Are you serious?
Why don't we just immediately conclude?
That I'm the best here.
What I know is this great person leaving the heat search tool....
... behind the truck last night.
-The tool is worth $ 8000. -I'm sorry, captain.
But that doesn't change the fact...
... when difficult things arise, I can deal with it.
I'm tired of facing this person.
You keep boasting yourself the last 10 minutes.
I'm not arrogant.
Last week when there was a fire in the apartment, I attract two people at once...
... while taking off my equipment and also preparing the hose yourself in 2 minutes.
-Other people can do that too. - But not at this station. </ P>
-Tom McBride bisa. -yang di Station 4?
He may be able to do it in 2.5 minutes, but it can't be under 2 minutes.
Give it up. -Kapten...
... He is strong, but not fast enough. </ P>
I can beat him anytime. </ P>
Wayne, you seem to judge yourself highly. </ P>
I think self-confidence is a good thing, but you have gone too far.
He is very far beyond the limit.
I can do it. Only that's what I said.
Super spicy sauce.
-What is it for? -We will do a small match.
We just want to prove < br /> is Wayne really the greatest.
If he dares to accept the challenge.
Oh, I won't run away.
Alright. </ p >
I'm first.
-What are you going to do? -Michael, count my time.
Oke. Siap?
Start.
Impossible.
You're crazy.
He drank it all.
23 seconds.
it's your turn.
That was great
But I will spend it in 20 seconds.
-Make a note of my time. .
-Ready? -Mrs.
Go.
-Come on, Wayne. -Very quick.
-Go, Wayne. -Continue, Wayne.
Why don't you try it yourself?
-You have to spend it. - 40 seconds. </ P>
-Come on. -I am burning! </ P>
Where was that great guy? </ P>
I thought he said he could do it. </ P >
My mouth is on fire!
Captain, how do you do it?
You can too, Terrell...
... If you have replaced it < br /> with tomato sauce.
That's a good trick. It was very funny. </ P>
Dr. Anderson? </ P>
The interview will take place 10 minutes more. </ P>
Catherine, thank you. I'll come. </ P>
Congratulations on the victory research on your cancer. </ P>
-You really deserve to win. -Thank you. </ P>
This is Catherine. </ P>
Hey, this is Caleb. I called to check on your situation. </ P>
What are you checking for me? for what? </ P>
maybe, you need something.
did you call because maybe I need something?
Yes. You want me to buy something for you...
... or maybe shop for needs tomorrow morning? </ P>
Caleb, you never asked me like this. What happened? </ P>
I just want to know if you need something, that's all. </ P>
Aku baik-baik saja.
Okay.
All right, then...
... goodbye.
Day 4, that's fine.
Hey, Cat, how are you? </ P>
Confused. </ P>
- My voice is weird. -What did he do? </ P>
actually, lately...
... He prepared me coffee, bought me a bad flower...
... and just now, he called me just to ask I say.
really? -Yes.
I told you what he was doing.
He was softening your heart in divorce
And why did he do it?
Before my cousin divorced...
... her husband did the same thing.
he starts to be nice and sweet, but next...
... he goes by taking home and most of his money.
He never talks to him again. Don't let him cheat you.
What history have you deleted?
What?
History on the web have you deleted it? so that no one knows what sites you open
You know, Caleb, You don't fool anyone.
I know what you're doing....
... bought me flowers called me when I was working.
and what is that?
I'll meet my lawyer for the week front, and don't you think...
... I got carried away by the trick you did.
What are you talking about?
I won't give you a dime more than what you really have.
When this divorce is settled, I'll take my share.
-What is it that you think I'm doing ? -No, I know what you did.
But, you're wrong.
You never thought that I could do the thing that you deserve.
-It's proud. -Be proud?
Proud? < br /> What did you just see, Caleb?
What image was on the screen? What is it called boast?
Who are you fooling? </ p >
Do you know why all your actions don't mean to me?
Because you have become a person like that.
when you are alone, < br /> that's what you do.
and there's nothing to be proud of there.
Mr. Rudolph. </ P>
Caleb. </ P>
-Hello? -not working, daddy. </ P>
What doesn't work? </ P>
The challenge that you gave this. It didn't work. </ P>
Tell me. </ P>
I did everything was told...
... and he refused everything I did.
Caleb, this process runs for 40 days, not 4 days.
For what continue if the road is deadlocked...
-... When there is no more way? -You don't know that yet.
Caleb, you're not people who give up easily.
and my hunch says until right now you're doing it.
I'm right right?
-I don't feel what -why. -Well understand.
But this is not to be felt.
But it's done.
Don't give up now.
Keep doing it one day at a time.
Good daddy.
I love you, my child.
Me too, Father.
How are you? </ P>
we have more pray for it. </ P>
I know you always tell me to survive in difficult times, but...
You don't know what I'm facing right now.
His gaze on me...
like harassing me.
And he doesn't even realize it.
When did I stop sacrificing for him?
What day has it been? </ P>
-18. -and? </ P>
and it's still difficult. </ P>
Every day there are always new things /> what teaches me what to do.
for example?
Like.
Day 16 tells me to pray for it. I missed it.
Day 17 about listening to it. </ P>
ke18 about learn more. </ P>
-learn? -Yes. </ P>
Look.
"When a man wants to get the heart of the opposite sex, he learns it.
He learned his likes and dislikes, his habits, his hobbies.
But after he got his heart and even married him...
... . He stopped studying his partner.
If you like learning before you get married...
... equivalent to the level of school, he should continue... .
... get to the college level, or higher...
... and finally, the highest level.
This is a lifelong journey that makes both hearts more intimate. "</ P>
This is great advice. I didn't think about it before. </ P>
So what are you learn Tina?
Yes, but I think my level hasn't reached the level of college kids.
Tell me more about how to study your partner.
I was advised to take her candlelight dinner...
... then ask her a lot of questions.
My advice is not half-hearted.
What do you mean?
Don't be pretentious. If you don't cook, buy at the best restaurant. </ P>
Do it at home, use eating utensils, clothes, music, everything is the best. </ P>
Make dating
What did you say?
-You never dated. -I'm like wine.
It takes a minimum of 35 years <br
The woman who got Wayne Floyd, Will get the perfect guy.
-You mean perfect grandparents. -No.
Myself is 123kg of pure love.
What you need in marriage is romance of love.
And everything comes from here.
It's easy to say if you have never been married.
The reality is more difficult than it says.
One day I will walk with beautiful woman in my arms my hand.
I'll show you how easy it is.
one thing is certain in your arms...
... is a packet of fried chicken .
Tomato sauce.
Tomato Sauce? damn it!
-That's cheating -What?
I drank sambal and what did he drink tomato sauce?
You just realized ?
Do you know what happened after that?
Get some sleep, Wayne.
- My stomach pain is very serious.
I'm angry now.
Very angry.
Someone will get a reply.
What are you doing?
Kurasa aku ingin makan malam bersama istriku.
Let me make it clear everything.
I don't love you.
Oh, my child.
These times will be very difficult.
-Hello, Caleb. -Done, yeah.
I stopped. I tried everything and the results were zero.
I I'm sick of it.
I understand, But you're only half way...
... where at the moment it's really difficult for us too.
At least you have hope. While not at all.
There are times when we too have no hope.
Father's marriage shouldn't last, Caleb. </ P>
You might not understand your current situation. </ P>
He must have seen you try. </ P>
No, he doesn't care. Everything seems to mean nothing to him.
Well, I've tried it.
Caleb, tomorrow are you off?
Yes, why?
I'll visit you. We'll talk later there.
You no need to do it.
I want to. I want to come. </ P>
Alright. </ P>
Father, I have to be honest. </ P>
I feel bad you have to pass 4 hours a trip to see me.
It's okay. That gives me time to pray and think.
So, what's the day, 20?
-Yes, it's lacking more. -Yes.
I want to say when halfway is the hardest for us.
Why?
Because of this the time when you were tested whether your heart is completely or not.
Do you still want to wish even though the situation is very difficult.
Well? Did you make it difficult for you? </ P>
Tidak. Ibumu menyenangkan.
is different from Catherine she cares a lot.
-Why do you think she is like that? -Because she doesn't love me.
He even hates me.
He ignored everything I did for him.
Did you read the whole on each page?
You mean the part that is verse The Bible underneath it? </ P>
I didn't read it. </ P>
-I told you, I don't need it. -If what do you need? </ P>
I want Catherine to be aware that in fact we are going to get a divorce.
And I want to prevent it, but I can't do it alone.
Maybe that's right , but I think what you need is more than that.
If you want to say I need JESUS, please don't say.
I don't need a guide to get through this life.
Oh, my child, Jesus is more than a guide.
He has become the most important part of our lives.
Why do you keep on advising me ?
Which part is important? How can it be?
When I realize who I am and who he is...
.... you know dad needs it.
Dad needs forgiveness and sacrifice.
And I still don't understand.
For what do I need His sacrifice ? I will go to hell, is that so?
Because of what? Divorced? </ P>
No. </ P>
Because you don't follow His standards. </ P>
What? Don't kill? </ P>
Well, I help others. I'm a good person. </ P>
That's what you think. </ P>
God doesn't judge with your standard.
-But the standard. -And what is that?
Truth.
-Okay. -Thanks.
-I'm honest. -Fidelity.
I care about people another. I care about others.
Sometimes.
But do you love God, who gives you life?
His standards very high, He equates hate by killing...
... and lust with adultery.
Well, what about good deeds I have done ?
Saving people from the fire doesn't make you right before Him.
If you break His command.
One day you will, account for everything.
Caleb...
... if I may ask why you're very disappointed in Catherine...
... What do you think?
He was stubborn.
He made it difficult for me.
ungrateful.
He keeps pissing me off.
Did he even thank in these 20 days?
No.
If you think < br /> after I wash the car...
... change the oil, wash, clean the house...
... it will show a little thank you .
He didn't do it.
In fact, when he came home he was hostile towards me.
I wasn't even accepted in my own house, yeah.
That's what really pissed me off.
The last 3 weeks, I've been struggling to try.
I tried show that I still care about this relationship.
I bought flowers, which he just threw away.
I received all the satire, said -he said, but last night was enough.
I prepared dinner, I prepared everything...
... to show my seriousness, how valuable he is...
... but he rejects me outright.
He doesn't deserve to be treated like that I stopped.
How can I love someone who keeps going...
... Refuse me?
That good question.
Daddy, I'm not like that.
Really?
no -
Daddy, this isn't what I mean .
My child, you just asked:
"How can someone love someone who keeps going...
... refuses himself? "
Caleb, the answer is:
You can't love him...
... because you can't give anything You don't have.
I can't really love your mother until I understand what love is.
Loving it is not because wants to get something.
Father has decided to love your mother...
... regardless of whether he is worthy or no.
God loves you even though you is not worthy of him.
Even though you reject Him.
Even though you don't acknowledge Him.
God sent His son Jesus to atone for your sins...
... because He loves you. </ P>
I also had the time to reject the cross. </ P>
But after I understood...
... Jesus Christ changed my life. </ P>
That's when I really could love your mother. </ P>
My child, I can't mediate this. </ P>
This is your problem with God. </ P>
But I love you too much not to tell this truth. </ P>
Not yet do you realize you need Him?
Don't you realize you need His forgiveness?
Yes.
Will you leave your life to Him?