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- We try to say it we don't want to be nuns
born in a seminary.
We want to get out in a bigger world,
but almost in a unconscious way.
We just found out that we want to be free.
(sniff)
Wow, that's right touching nerves
You know, sometime those words, "free,"
it makes connections through decades.
♪ You know
♪ You know what it means
♪ Free
♪ Say high living costs
♪ Check the price tag on dreams
We have just lived through the most
tumultuous years in American history
♪ Fight in every type of war
♪ Our freedom is premium
♪ Hope is everything I can afford
- For our graduation, we are class in 1969.
We decided we wanted to try something
that has never been done before.
Not a yearbook, but a Yearbox
full of loose large pages.
Pages that you can display like portfolios,
and you can set it up But they want it.
We decided to go home our own photo shoot
These photos are inspiration for this film
♪ Do you know what that is? means to be fulfilled
- [Voiceover] I want all, and I want
to see if I can do everything
- [Voiceover] We found freedom is not free
I'm chasing dreams.
♪ My mother and father
♪ Did tell me what I should be
♪ I just want to be happy and
♪ Make it good before I go ♪
- Well, I think as a woman, we have a unique opportunity to tell the story of a woman who went to a women's college.
Very few are there anymore.
And give our perspective how to
our lives have changed, or how do we change the world
- Even to get to the point where you can
expressing feelings of anger, That is an achievement.
And there are all these quarrels about women and their roles,
and you have to do it keep breaking through it
- What I can't do at that time
is how unboxed my life will be.
♪ If the mockingbird doesn't sing
♪ Mama will buy you diamond ring ♪
- [Voiceover] I feel like I'm originally
of something very interesting
- [Voiceover] You know, I really want
spread my wings and have a big life
- [Voiceover] I I'm very scared.
The first person in me is directly family to study.
- [Voiceover] Father works in a factory
He makes tires.
- [Voiceover] Previous I went to Skidmore,
I checked two books in Manchester Public Library.
Amy Vanderbilt and Emily Post,
because I don't want to make mistakes
- [Voiceover] Meanwhile, outside the shelter
from our college, there is a disaster event
happens everywhere the world will
affects all of us and changes our lives
- [Voiceover] Things that stand out for me
when I look back is how young I am.
This setting is pretty pretty red, and I want red
says, "I'm here."
If you see Afro-Americans and the numbers don't exist,
You appear two, three, or four in one group
or whatever and people start seeing you
Like them have never seen black people
before or something
- My parents put me on a plane in Beirut, Lebanon
I don't see them for another year
Because we can't be able to fly back.
- So we go up to the dormitory,
and these girls are on the porch
and they wait and they start clapping, and--
- My roommate is a beautiful woman from Long Island, he Father is a doctor.
Things I remember about him
does he enter with a clothes rack,
rolling clothes shelves, full of clothes
with their price tag still.
And I know at that time I was a brave new world. (laugh)
- And they charge out and my sister
come running out as I got out of the car.
Obviously he knows me, but I'm still trying
to find out which one he is.
And he ran and he hugged me,
and others swoop down and baggage
exchanged out, and they speak and they hug
and my parents see each one -
I see eye contact instantly
between them, "Alhamdulillah.
" He was treated like everyone else. "
I think my mother is almost crying. Relief
- I come from a very right family , introduced to people who grow up.
- High social life school is very...
I really enjoy it....
- At that time, everyone is trying to adjust
Trying to appear like is as easy as possible
I was very surprised find out there is a girl
on the floor I already have _ callers
He has about five people who come to see him.
And I said, "How do they all know
" he is here? " He is really pretty.
Very beautiful, striking blonde
We all wear sweaters and skirts
and he wears a slinky cocktail dress,
and these people from Dartmouth are waiting for him,
and I feel really simple.
I realize I have a lot to learn.
- And I said to my wife, "1,400 young women?
"Really? Problems they can get?"
And he said, "Oh, you will learn."
And I do it.
- And class & apos; 69 actually
at the beginning of the dawn.
They start thinking about it
that they can control more than their destiny
than before, than their mother,
and of course they grandma has
- We are transitioning from the old to the new
in everything, do go with all the rules,
basically, in that case span four years.
- Pretty much from get-go
arrived at the Skidmore campus,
there are nuances, newborn feelings of liberation
We ourselves, we are on our own two feet,
and we must learn to speak for what we believe
But gee, it's long Time before I feel really
comfortable talking in class even.
I am a shy person.
And finally, you find your voice
- Chances are A girl can appear
with its own version from its own voice,
I thought I was talking to myself.
I'm about me.
I'm looking for a way, I don't want to just like that
like a cookie cutter person.
- All that allows me to learn
that you can't, nothing will intimidate me
- What I think is a lot of from the 60s is about,
This is what you are doing goods and there are
little danger they, take risks
- Well, all hell is released
between 1965 and 1969.
That is a completely new world.
The dormitory is now open to men,
mother house sent packing,
Students now manage the dormitory.
Women now have their men and men date of stay for the weekend
Everything has changed.
- And I was called before the Honorary Council
to drink alcohol on campus
And they say that to me I will be punished
and that I must resign as Senior Class President.
And I said, "Okay, you didn't choose me.
" You can't choose me. "
They say," Then, will get a vote. "
I say," Okay, here's a vote.
"Voting is you holding me,
" We get liquor on campus.
"You kick me out,
" You win, I come out. "
Faculties are one third,
administration is third,
and students are third.
All three sections choose
allows you to drink on campus
That is a big victory.
Ask Dean Olds I am in front of a vote,
and he said, "Why? do you do this?
I say," Look, that's how celebrates my birthday. "
And he said," What do you drink? "
And I said," Okay, old A mixture of crow and whiskey acids. "
And he goes," Oh my dear, don't you know
"Next time, I will give more money
" Old crows can make you are very sick
- This is how we imagine it our life will become.
We will be glamorous,
and still throw back for something vintage
and cool, but now we're out there
And we can do it whatever we want,
and we bake ourselves.
In our first mixer, you use a sheath and heel.
That is a dress code, sheath and heel.
Very Mad Men, very sheath and heel.
With the second mixer, you record your shoes together
Remember that, shoes are things
and you can beat them up as much as you want,
then you put this like, adhesive, this is like adhesive bandage
around them to hold them together, because it's cool
to have that one messy.
And it's like one years, everything changes.
Meanwhile freeing, is also very scary
Previously, you have edited and you were channeled to,
You can become a teacher, You can become a nurse,
You can become a buyer, but Now, the rule is not active.
Now the rule is, you can whatever you want
I'm like, "Okay, I don't know what I want." (Laugh)
Well, this is like, "Here it is all flavors of ice cream,
and you go," I don't know if I like butter pecans. "
(rock music)
- The Yearbox, what is a good _ metaphor.
These students came in 1965,
and they, entered several ways, in a box,
in the cage even at that time.
Parental discipline cage.
Very strong cage strict college law
- Ah, here it is
Yearbook in a box,
and how it happened.
You are a student What year
- senior
Well, when I was a junior, I was tapped by,
one of the art professors, who is very aware
and sensitive to yearbooks.
Can't we do anything more
than what is always done?
He never met a project that cannot be rediscovered
(laugh)
So he just let it I conceptualize
- Oh, I like how he tried
to really survive there. (laughter)
And all good people do it easily.
- Bob suggested that I go home
and come up with some new concepts
for what yearbook can be.
It comes with responsibility,
possible, to rediscover it,
and make a better world.
And we like to think this is a better world
- That's very much
opens the possibility,
and think outside the box, if you want,
to make references to our Year Box
And sort of recreate your life
(rock music)
- He said, "Skidmore is looking for a
" photographer who wants senior class photo
- I mean, all of those photos
is part of a type of release
- And you have me write Sedan a letter,
and I remember coming for you at a snack bar
with my response, because we use U.S. letters. in those days
- (laugh) Yes, right
- Oh, I got a letter from Sedan.
Oh, he will be very interested in our project
He wants me to come to Yale as his guest.
And Bob said, "And stay in the living room,
" I assume. " (laughter)
And that should be my tip right away. I'm still a shy young man.
I am the only rooster in park, so to speak
I am in Wonderland.
I think this will happen be a good photo
because I think they will take off their clothes
in areas where I can see them.
But they all disappear and return with barrels
Many of them will do it show a little
Diamond rings, like not touch me, or don't...
So I immediately knew they were banned One time when we are in a position
to be very intimate, and he said to me,
"I want to stay virgin until I get married."
I never forget it.
Occupy Wall Street, occupy this and that
Very rooted in business generation & apos; 60s.
The accompanying freedom.
Freedom of expression, and freedom
actions among students The most important thing to me.
(soft flute music)
- This architecture speaks to me because of that
fantastic and cheerful, and it's not just a box.
Architecture without boxes.
Photography shoot with Sedat,
as I remember, involved he involved me
in conversation, so is not like when he poses
and suggested different places to stand
He will ask questions, and the questions
I remember when he snapped it,
"So, what will you do? do next year?" (Laughs)
And I said, "I go to live in Italy."
And click. (click shutter)
- All doors are not open.
You can do anything you want, and then,
what makes you think you can do it?
I am not aware of obstacles for a long time
It took me a while realized that I was,
I start destroy some obstacles.
- Women do not run for president
from school, you can be a secretary
Certainly not a treasurer, Because you don't believe
Women with money, at least not in high school in the 60s.
I have never really...
thought I would spend my life
being a mother, a wife, and a worker.
That doesn't seem like chance for me
I mean, when I grow up, I have one mother
that works, and You should have heard it
other mothers talk about him
- I grow up with parents
and a small white chisel fence.
You will think it will happen be how my life works.
Not so.
(soft music)
- I always think all others
know more than me, and they kind of,
they have a secret formula for for us, and I don't.
- I always feel like everyone
more handsome than me.
- I really did it felt like I was...
not from TripAdvisor.
When I say that, I don't think that I'm
ever existed in me any element
- But it's true It takes a long time for me
before I feel centralized.
- I am afraid to be beautiful.
Yes.
I'm afraid to be funny.
I want to say that I don't know why.
The closest I can get to the truth...
What is that...
I think I'm afraid so
what will I...
what people will see
will not be accepted
I am lost.
♪ God will trouble the water
- And we start singing,
"Let the woman speak, Let the woman speak!"
Life just feels like every day you wake up
and there will be other types from "Wham, here's the other
" The main thing is big That happens. "
And rightly so feels like the ground
only shifts all the time.
- Starts being critical the mass in our hearts
of what we need to do. told to be quiet,
to calm down, calm down. to calm down. "
- People being killed, there are
riots on the streets, the city is on fire
Civil Rights Movement,
war, lib woman.
Students now think if they "like" something on Facebook it they have done their bid,
but you won't affect changes in society
unless you go out there and try to do something about it
- I have lived through two
really awesome event in terms of
the impact on my world
One of them is the murder of President Kennedy and all that flows from it,
and other events are 9/11.
- I work for, in and from newspapers
When I go to college, and I get the opportunity
to interview Bobby Kennedy,
Who, my God, is one of my great heroes I was destroyed when he was killed
- [Voiceover] Bobby Kennedy's day comes to campus...
- I have my photo sitting right behind him.
What surprised me, hers Hands tremble.
I will never forget that. His hands are trembling.
No one can see it behind the podium
In front of him, but I Can, I'm right behind him.
The page vibrates, hands
trembling so newspaper crackling.
- I started seeing it treated women
in the same way to enter the way black people
is being treated, that's how it is It's not a difficult jump
to make between what happened
in Civil Rights Movement and want to get
more with the Women's Movement.
- There is a woman in the dormitory,
I don't know whether the _ is her fiance,
being in Vietnam, and he calls him
and I remember that conversation
Hearts like that break up conversation
He is there, who knows
when or whether he ever did it talk to him again,
and he is in this case payphone in the hall
- All the boys I grew up with , because I'm not
grow in a luxurious environment,
is being designed for going to war,
and many of them are killed,
Most of the people I know, including myself,
do not believe it is moral war, a war that can be justified
It appears to be U.S. do not have a business
being in Vietnam, that is a civil war,
and that kind of smells of imperialism
That's what drove everyone felt
that they really must speak.
- You know, when is he? go home and I meet him
at the airport, I thought he was successful.
He comes out without being killed
And then he in the early 40s,
One night he said it I, "I have cancer."
I said, "If it's a slow-growing cancer,
" You might be able to track it down Return to Vietnam. "
You know what I mean?
Yes, for (murmuring)
You know, I really love him.
But he's gone.
♪ If the mockingbird doesn't sing
♪ Mama will buy you diamond ring
♪ If the diamond is the ring changes to brass
♪ Mama will buy You see glass ♪
- [Voiceover] Everyone home from Christmas
senior year with their rings.
- Sex is never a conversation at home
And he said to me, "Are you? know what a diaphragm is?"
And I said, "Yes, this muscle is = = (laugh)" below... "
- Finally the enlightened gynecologist comes to town,
and he lets it know that he will do it,
she will give birth control to the woman who is engaged.
One of my students is sent go to her sister
Engagement ring, she puts it on, goes to see a doctor,
and years of doctor then say to me,
"Tom, if I see the ring Once, I see it 27 times."
That's a woman Must be done in that era
to get birth control.
- Ring in spring That is nonsense.
I've never heard of it before, It's not my agenda.
My mother told me early on, if you want to get married,
stay home and save everyone has a lot of money
- I think so is interested in romance
From that time on I was around four years old.
This little boy named Georgie Kiefer gave me a ring.
That is the beginning of my final .
I think everyone wants it to appear as a virgin,
and I think everyone said they were virgins.
I really restore my virginity
after high school. (laughter)
I later became a person... (laugh)
I am a virgin who has just recovered.
- I cheated on with two professors
The plane belongs to professor, first professor.
He kind of, I think,
the best looking professor on campus
I am his girlfriend, therefore people will
turn their heads to see me
I am friends with His family and I remember
being in their house When we land on the moon.
Another milestone is find out through analysis
and by being friends
with great groups people, I'm gay.
The most difficult part about that
tells my family, that doesn't work well.
- From that amount grows great solidarity with that person
coming out of the closet, has come out of the closet...
I mean, we've just been a colleague,
an engineer at work, who is a week off
and back as a woman.
- I write to him every day in the summer,
and he never replied to me.
I remember that as was very painful
I will go to my child mailbox in Oak Bluffs,
I will open it and there will be nothing in
Finally, he must have called me or something happened,
and I went to visit him and his family in Vermont.
I was in his room,
and I open the top drawer, and there are
my mail stack all in one piece.
When I leave, I take it.
And he never said anything to me about that,
he clearly has they sit there,
and I read it, and I was a little horrified,
and then I was buried they were outside (laugh)
I tried digging them a few years later
and they are no longer there.
- Your sister arranges you in your first year
with frat boy from Union College
and he drinks a lot of beer and really becomes football,
and it's not mine.
So I just found a little home in Caffè Lena.
(regional music)
That's a university for us.
I finally became a waiter there almost all four years.
You can play music, no You just have to listen.
♪ Wade in the water
♪ Wade in children's water
♪ Wade in the water
♪ God will destroy water
Well, first love My life, he is a master
Guitar player, he has a beautiful Martin D-28,
I think, and fair beautiful picking style,
and very, very sweet song.
I lost my virginity in Lena's apartment
Actually, he gave us our big bedroom (laugh)
- I always have it feels good in men.
- Sometimes you have to smell a lot
frog to meet the prince.
- I think I'm going underground...
Especially because of me, A kind of admiration of my husband.
- I really am not a wife material. I really don't.
- There is something very theoretical about my life
I want something real, but to be kind of,
really embodies my sexual self,
That happened with Mike.
That, you know, it's very...
That's very strong.
- I'm talking about coming Out of the box, and I think
Women realize that sexual satisfaction is their right.
- Mike uses this album, this new album
who just came out, and Both Sides Now start playing.
Whenever I hear it I immediately return to that night,
and rain falls and we run across the bridge,
and that's one of them when when
Your life is sort of down the road
this way, and then all suddenly (air blowing).
- The main police officer I got married.
And I feel embarrassed to get married.
That's how I feel about that. (laugh)
I remember I went home and told my father
"I am very embarrassed to say it."
- I really dated someone from Union College,
but stop when I parents won't let me
down for the weekend
- That's where my life starts to go from the cliff.
You know all the clichés of sex, drugs, and rock and roll.
It becomes real part of my life,
chaos and relationship instability.
- [Voiceover] So it takes a long time time for me to really get,
from my mother, maybe Until I like 55,
that he is actually proud of what I have done
All he will call and say, "So when do you have children?
" So when are you? have children? "
- My mother is the longest run a subscription
to Brides Magazine I thought they had,
ever, ever, ever.
- Yes, I was pregnant when I graduated ,
and there are some of us.
- I am and married.
If I am not pregnant, I will not get married
- I have my child maybe Right before I am 43 years old.
- He is the second a bottle of champagne
on my 40th birthday. (laughs)
So you know, everyone says life starts at age 40?
I don't think so will be like that (laugh)
Yes, that's surprising, I'm not necessarily
want children, really.
Many people say that A difficult time when
Your daughter goes Go to college
I am very ready to get it get rid of him (laugh)
Living with teenagers A very smart girl
and also stronger than you...
But I'm angry with him, he used to pick me up
Literally choose me ride from my feet
How, and you know it's like,
"Lower me, put me down !" (Laughs)
- One of my great regrets is not having children.
I have never left have no children,
I always assume I will do it have children, but...
When I come to MIT, that,
I can't even imagine it have children.
- James Baldwin said, "Go the way your blood beats.
" All true love is sacred. "
It is very important I have been for years, = love relationship with someone.
I have never had a strong appeal towards becoming a mother. so annoying in this case...
pathetic old men in Congress and without it
arranging themselves as arbitrators
of what should happen with my womb
- not having children makes me cry
And there are times...
just don't have anyone
to help me but I make me weak.
You will get the flu
and you can feel it coming,
and nothing inside the house,
and you must make a trip to the grocery store
to buy what you will get takes the next three days
because there is no division of labor
That makes me cry occasionally.
Stinkin & quart; quart milk. (chuckles)
("Water is Wide" sung by MaryLeigh Roohan)
♪ The water is wide
- Yes, honest relationship has happened
My biggest challenge
- The type of man
I find it interesting to change
When I become more political.
- I have a wonderful husband,
and he calls himself Mr. Thatcher.
He claims he likes to carry my bag
- We have been married for 42 years
- I really have it strong feet
in the 1950s mentality,
from your husband will Take care of yourself.
- I remember me mother said (inhaled)
"The man is the head of the relationship
" and the woman is the heart. "
Therefore, don't think.
- I'm not good at expressing my feelings at all
Because I don't want to pedaling a boat
- I mean, see what happens with divorce
I know my friend's parents who will stay with
with no way possible marriage, and stigma
attached to divorce, Well, for politicians...
Ronald Reagan became president and he was divorced.
That will never happen happened in the 50s.
- I can make much better business decisions from me
do with most of what happens in my home life.
- you know, everything divorce has a straw.
- He landed in prison many, many times
His face is beaten.
- My ex-husband bought a boat.
I'm not talking about a boat or cruise ship,
I'm talking about a ship.
- He did try to break into the White House
He is quite politically minded.
- And he bought a ship without telling me
or discuss it with me, or...
And that's at a time that we can barely
pay our bills everyday
- Do you know what?
I love you so much, but I'm better
hit me alone
- Not always a sorry, this is magical,
what would be like if I was married
(Laughter) I don't know.
I think I learned early
with other girlfriends,
I learned not to define myself
based on dependence or the need for men.
- Who am I without a man?
That already, it's already very interesting something to find
- the bond, and that Maybe why he often comes,
is that kind of thing remains in my dream
That is my soul that returns.
Married, some children.
I met him burial . (laugh)
I still hope so I will find someone
it will be more from life partner
But they are mostly musicians, you know
Properties of animals, you know
I think it's me close to guitarist
for a while, and very close to jazz pianists
for a while, and then close to jazz bassist
for a while. (laugh)
Never prepare a household again, even though
♪ Say high living costs
♪ Check pricetag on dreams
- Brian, my middle child,
usually ask questions, "Mom, why are you working?
" so hard? " And he is like, 12 or 13 maybe at that time.
This is when I am single,
I haven't married Randy.
I say, "Because of me Don't get fired. "
He said, "No will fire you
He said," You work queen! "
- I mean, I love being a mother,
but there are real big holes in my life
- And if you think about their mother,
who many of them pass from
excellent liberal arts colleges like Skidmore.
The mothers think that they will get a ring
with their spring senior years and then
move to marriage and produce children
like themselves and then continue
produce more children, but don't take jobs
Now we tell women to go out to work
which is actually expected to work.
- But I will never forget walk down the aisle
and hear this music, and say, "Oh my God,
" That is very beautiful. " And it feels like,
it's just a kind of (humming parade music).
It is very beautiful, and that's how it is,
That's how I answer, and...
that never leaves me
It's really deep through my life line
I kind of go from the great
to the silly, but as I say
Do I sing as a telegram singing?
sending people, and I sing in the choir in Met.
So, the noble and the silly
(laugh)
- I only have one brother,
and he development defects.
He lives in home with my parents
I ask my parents, "How are you...
" What about Kathy? " because at that time
my father was almost 70 years old.
This was when I was still silent at college high, and I said,
"What's the plan?"
My father said, "Your plan."
I said, "I'm not the plan."
I am aware, to make Of course I'm not the plan
I really have to put lots of distances
between me and Manchester.
I just don't want be, this is (muttering),
will sound very good heartless, but I no
wants to be my brother's guard, I really want a life.
I've worked hard to get it.
I don't want to go back,
and so I don't.
- In the summer I have working on 7th Avenue
as a Fitters model, and I remember where,
which basically, they are stuck pins in you all day
and pay you for that , but improve you
If you bleed into the dress.
That's really one of them which is very interesting Experience on 7th Avenue
I paid hourly and all things like that.
I'm really aware that's what I want
to be one sitting behind the table
go, (nasally) "I don't like this.
" He doesn't look good in that.
"It's not funny, I want that one.
" Can you make it blue? " (normal) I want to be one on the other,
business people
- I will always come it's financially
Because I really want it to be responsible
- Victoria & sos; s Secret has all other , when I was there,
You have a whole manual defined
What is sexy in six different bucket sexy.
Believe it or not.
Once you tell people that you are doing a bra,
Let me tell you, you at every cocktail party,
people are hiking their shirts
(laugh) I mean, fair even in my Sunday School
The human teacher is like, "Not here, please,"
and I like, "Please."
- I started my career with Three Mile Island program,
and I fly it days to Harrisburg
to meet the day after governor
Three Mile Island, I am the only plane.
(laugh) All others will be the opposite.
- I ran for the mayor Very active in my union
Teacher Unity, and...
During my working years I was still active as a retiree.
- I became Mondale & apos; s Press secretary when he was
Preparing the campaign to walk on & apos; 84.
I am the first woman Press Secretary
to major Presidential campaign,
so there is a broken barrier.
- I mean, I'm the first woman in the men's locker room.
I really do it feminist things,
and that's really, really, really hard
I am part of maybe, the biggest group
Pulitzer has won in the Times,
which is for portrait and sorrow
almost all people who died on 9/11.
- Oh, there are times when I work 60 or 70 hours.
This is my family.
- I'm a workaholic and one of the problems
is it very dangerous interesting. (laugh)
This organism, Prochlorococcus,
It's like opening a every week
My relationship with that wants to understand
how it dominates the ocean.
There are 10,000 of them per teaspoon of sea water.
Nobody knows they are there,
and indeed run the world
This is actually a poster for the party My department must celebrate my acceptance
National Medal of Science.
- Three weeks before the election, we get a poll
which shows very convincingly that will happen
very difficult for Mondale to return
from where he is in a low point, and try
and win the election, so we know he will lose
- I never cry work doesn't matter how bad
I have everything never cry at work
I might have cried home after that
- I will return to my hotel room
every day and cry at 5,
everyone thinks so Funny at that time.
- And one day we are watching something
on television and Robin Morgan appears.
Robin Morgan, of course, is a very passionate feminist
and we see this, and Mike,
my new husband, said, "Oh, everything he said
" made sense to me. "
And I thought," Oh, God.
"We just got married, we will have a baby."
Very funny
like the feminist point from view while I
like saying, "I don't know if I can really
also has a toll, and rightly so.
It has a toll on my spirit,
there is a victim in me sort of self-sense. is Charles in Charge,
I developed and produced Magic School Bus Series,
I have won 12 Emmy, do lots of things from my work in Hollywood,
which is the actual pressure cooker.
I started doing that at a very early age
and I also became a mother at a relatively early age.
- I just don't think I'm the best mother
around the world.
I'm too tired be the best mother
around the world.
- I'm lucky because my husband works freelance,
and he is at home, lucky, poor
because at some point,
I feel a little upset here I am
being a person to go to work every day
and basically bring smoked meat house
Isn't that great?
I am successful women in their 70s,
but I'm worried it's mine the main attachment of children
is for my husband, who really takes
traditional roles parents who live at home,
and I bravely march into the workforce
go home with fatigue all the time,
and have that feeling
I somehow failed in my job
because I'm not there as it should,
and I failed home because I'm not with my children
- Schools don't have a kindergarten all day,
so it really becomes a choice for me
where I can drop children in the morning
and pick them up at night.
I remember both
standing behind this fence,
crying like I leave, it's just,
it's very devastating Really terrible
Terrible, terrible
- Women must work twice as hard,
and this has been documented with a double blind study
from resumes and publications, and you know,
fellowship grants, that women must be,
half again good for getting the same results
- Assertiveness in women are aggression
It's okay for guys, but It's okay for women.
- And he asked me questions and that happened
night news, I will love to try to find this snippet.
And he asked me,
"Why are you?" Right?
I'm still young, "You've been for years,
and "why does he have it? choose you for this job?"
And I said, "Will you ask? question about a man?"
And I thought I was caught they were off guard
- They are all men except me
And we are at 7 breakfast meeting
once a week and I remember,
It's like a stopwatch makes everyone ready,
resigns to child care, et cetera, and so on.
So I went in to get Danny and he has made it
just big, big mess on his bed
I have to give him a bath.
I see me look, it's 6:45 a.m.,
told myself then,
"There is no one member of the of the Executive Committee
" Do this this morning, that is certain! "
I remember being a little annoyed
that there is no opportunity for me even
Inhale because they run it like a men's club.
- I mean, I become part of the movement,
and I don't think that just that coincidence
about my time got a term at MIT
Then I became very involved
promote the cause women in science
- Look, I, in the business world too,
see the generation of women who think they have to
like a boy for success, and I never felt it.
And I think Skidmore is why. (laugh)
I think I'm comfortable being me,
as a woman!
I have never tried be a human (laugh)
I want to be with a boy,
but I don't want be one of the boys.
- There is always this feeling that you enter a room
If you are a woman, and does not have a degree from MIT,
that you are considered stupid until you prove otherwise.
Not stupid, but less than.
And I think so
continuous type fueled
feeling, "I will show it to them."
I call it "rebellion," if all
senior women gather.
I have a button that says,
"Women Who Have Good Functions Don't Make History."
- Yeah, the glass the sky is there,
it's not outright talking about.
Women can be vice presidents,
But you won't become CEO.
- You must not behave properly
if you will make history
♪ The water is wide
- [Voiceover] After I am dead, I hope people
My Google. (laugh)
- Wow, when I sit I become
much more proud than myself (laugh)
because that's the case The fact is, a legacy.
It's easier, the world is easier
place for my daughter
- Many times during my career, I've become the first woman
to get this or the first woman to get it,
and I always tell jokes
that I want to be the second woman
to get anything (laughter)
or fifth.
- They want to celebrate it You become the first black
do something, or whatever first minority .
For me the story that you got this
privilege, you're talking about being special,
that you are not like other people
And my reaction is, "Oh, but that's how it is
" like everyone else. " (laughs)
There are many people who work hard
who should be in front of me,
but they are sort of put down and sacrificed - "
Well, they don't do it say" Good "initially,
Like," Do you want to be a lawyer lyin? "(laughs)
That belongs to my mother exact words
But after that, they say, "Okay,
" go talk to those who can't speak alone. "
- When she is talking about, she and her husband
marriage and they first meet with rabbi,
and she talks about how, she thinks it might be fun
if she walks around he is seven times
I say, "And then he will go Walk around you seven times,"
and he goes, "No, I'm fair Will walk nearby. "
Something inside me snaps and I lose it,
and I am very does not suit him,
and says it will happen is above my body
If I choose to submit,
= = if I choose to play
in my house it's my choice,
but no one knows my what is my role
I don't want anyone to tell him,
or at least make a demonstration
of what his future role is Maybe in his marriage.
She doesn't walk around her husband
seven times at a wedding
- Women's Movement affects me in terms of
raising my child appreciating women,
and to respect their role and to try and understand it.
We encourage many generation of stronger women
come behind us from before,
and also maybe one human generation
who is a little a little more in tune
for women's issues and women's rights.
- Unboxed ideas, I hope for everyone.
I look forward to it my own daughter,
who I will say, is in the hipster box
You know, exit from the box, and...
just look at what's out there
- Actually, I always say to me students, "Follow your heart. take it for granted,
but they might have to fight back some of these same battles. I am very proud of
in that class and of his generation.
- I think my child is my inheritance.
My child is fearless.
I will never be called fearless
when I became her age, when I was 23 years old.
That's not something someone will ever say
for us when we are that age is fearless.
Because I don't think so something we know how to be.
At least I don't.
- Yes, I think so this on both sides now
sort of saying that, and maybe that's how it is
I have lived my life, more with questions.
I know I have more questions always
than I have an answer, and I find
that the older I am, the more I feel I know.
- You can't have it all
You have a choice to make, trade-off,
and everyone finds their own balance
- I Googled and I found it,
so I decided to call him.
This man answered,
I gave him my name, he said "Oh!
" Your portrait depends in our living room
"above the fireplace."
He came to the phone
and he is in the process of divorce.
I made a terrible mistake, I said,
"Are you still that beautiful? Have you been at Skidmore?"
That's something that You should never,
once said, but I say it
In retrospect I think about that and I say,
"What is my donkey Make comments like that."
But he is very mature about that,
and he put it in a very...
spiritual level.
He said, "I am very beautiful inside."
- hopefully someone wants to say,
"Good child, good friend,
" good wife, good mother. " I don't think I say good lawyer (laughs)
I don't think I want it to be in my tomb
- My tombstone on my tombstone,
"No longer looking for it a better position. "
♪ I'll go hard
- [Voiceover] Aging is about, it's about
releasing a lot.
- Just turned the day before yesterday.
- Way ahead, there is a point that disappears,
(laugh) and we will disappear at some point.
I think of death a lot, I have to say
This is not something I...
But no, it's not , I'm not--
When my mother died, I was with her.
I hugged him when he died,
and that is actually very peaceful,
and it's very sweet.
- The question is no longer is "what I want"
but what is my role in reflecting god?
- I touch God every day
God is in my child.
- I think I still have a lot of unfulfilled potential
And...
Not finished yet. (laugh)
- I want to feel useful
I want to feel like me, I still have a voice.
- We have renewed ourselves and may be recreated
ourselves so much times along the way.
- I want to learn, maybe,
would you like to believe, Latin and Hebrew.
- I really want to do gears
I tried it recently. The result is...
(laugh) we have to say, a little disappointing
- A friend of mine says only about increasing age
is that you see different from others.
I feel the same thing in it that I always do,
maybe even better
- Moments of true joy and
satisfaction in my life
I have a piano and I have my cat,
and I got a good job.
- I mean, sometimes I am amazed that we are all 65 years old and, where did those years come from?
This is enough travel.
- I feel much more that I understand
what is the word "freedom" Means now, from that.
In some ways, I think maybe I really lived in the 60s.
Not only me in me 60s, but I live
enthusiasm from 60s doesn't feel...
bound by conventions as much as
with my own heart, and freedom
is the 60s.
I think I finally got it.
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♪ Fading
♪ They say I fade
- This is my family ♪ Look better my life and forgive me
♪ Graying
♪ Just because I'm gray
♪ Don't mean this fire is dying
♪ Shine & apos; until the last second
- Well-behaved women don't make history
♪ Because I started dancing
♪ As I learn to walk
♪ Become a fighter and never stop
♪ I reject
- And all this is middle about women and their roles,
and you have to do it keep breaking through it
- Don't tell me to calm down.
- (laughs) I a virgin who has just recovered
- This muscle is (laughs) underneath...
- She doesn't walk around her husband
seven times at a wedding
- I want to be with a boy,
but I don't want be one of the boys.
- Still their pricetags are on, and I know that
that I'm in (laughs) A brave new world.
- [Voiceover] I ran for the mayor.
- You are the job queen.
- I really want to do gears
- Other types, wham!
♪ Because I started dancing when I learned to walk
♪ Become a fighter
- get out of that box
- I am unboxing myself, I think, in some ways.
- You look different for others
♪ I will go with a bang ♪
- What kind of problem can they have it?
- I think maybe that only won't happen for me
I will, however, not...
If I meet someone while I walk back
to my car this afternoon, Upper West Side
always be very (laugh)
a successful place for me to meet men
I, you know, I will do it explore a relationship
Surely.
♪ Oh black bird I hear you singing
♪ You have been repaired Your wings are broken
♪ But I heard people say
♪ That you can't fly with
♪ Say your wings old now, they are gray
♪ Oh black bird, I heard them say
♪ It's time for you the wings to go
♪ You are not graceful now
♪ You just hang around
♪ It's better to retire to the ground
♪ Oh my blackbird knows it's not true
♪ The fire is still burning bright in you
♪ Oh black bird, you tell me
♪ You have lots of things to do
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